Is the gift of tongues for today? First Corinthians 13:8 mentions the gift of tongues ceasing, although it connects the ceasing with the arrival of the “perfect” in 1 Corinthians 13:10. While there is room for argument regarding the clarity of when, exactly, the "perfect" arrived, or, perhaps when it arrives, This much is clear: Jesus cannot be "the perfect." The word is teleios and it is gender neutral in this case. That would indicate not a person, but an event or a concept, such as the "perfect will of God", "perfect" being the word teleios. This key Greek word can have a masculine intent, such as when Jesus told the rich young ruler to sell all his possessions if he wants to be "complete (teleios)" because the reference is to the young man himself. However, the modifiers in the Greek in the 1 Corinthians 13:8 usage force us to accept that this use of teleios is gender neutral. So, what event could it possibly be talking about?
As we've seen, "perfect" and "complete" are both accurate translations in the Greek. The word does, in fact, mean both. Completion, in the Greek context, means "perfect." So, what, rather than being perfect, would be complete at the time Paul was writing? The canon of Scripture. Paul was aware the the gifts were fading even as was his own life and ministry in that Roman rental house where he was held captive. He had left Trophimus lying ill at Miletus. If the gift of healing, for example, was not fading or had not faded altogether by that time, why would Paul leave one of his good friends and associates lying ill in a foreign city? Please don't raise the specter of "lack of faith" because the argument doesn't hold water in comparison to the gospel. The fact is, the gifts were all fading, just as Paul wrote of them in 1 Corinthians 13.
In fairness to the discussion, we can look at alternatives to the usage of tongues as practiced in Corinth. Some point to passages such as Isaiah 28:11 and Joel 2:28-29 as evidence that speaking in tongues was a sign of God's oncoming judgment. First Corinthians 14:22 describes tongues as a “sign to unbelievers.” According to this argument, the gift of tongues was a warning to the Jews that God was going to judge Israel for rejecting Jesus Christ as Messiah. Therefore, when God did in fact judge Israel (with the destruction of Jerusalem by the Romans in A.D. 70), the gift of tongues would no longer serve its intended purpose. While this view is possible, the primary purpose of tongues being fulfilled does not necessarily demand its cessation. It could still be argued, given the somewhat vague nature of the 13th chapter, that Scripture does not conclusively assert that the gift of speaking in tongues has ceased. Argued, but not proven to still be active, either.
At the same time, if the gift of speaking in tongues were active in the church today, it would be performed in agreement with Scripture. It would be a real and intelligible language (1 Corinthians 14:10). It would be for the purpose of communicating God's Word with a person of another language (Acts 2:6-12). It would be in agreement with the command God gave through the apostle Paul, “If anyone speaks in a tongue, two -- or at the most three -- should speak, one at a time, and someone must interpret. If there is no interpreter, the speaker should keep quiet in the church and speak to himself and God” (1 Corinthians 14:27-28). It would also be in accordance with 1 Corinthians 14:33, “For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.”
God most definitely can give a person the gift of speaking in tongues to enable him or her to communicate with a person who speaks another language. If it was absolutely necessary for Him to do so to bring a person or a nation to Christ, He would do it, without delay. The Holy Spirit is sovereign in the dispersion of the spiritual gifts (1 Corinthians 12:11). Just imagine how much more productive missionaries could be if they did not have to go to language school, and were instantly able to speak to people in their own language. However, God does not seem to be doing this. Tongues does not seem to occur today in the manner it did in the New Testament, despite the fact that it would be immensely useful.
Here is the meat of the issue: The vast majority of believers who claim to practice the gift of speaking in tongues do not do so in agreement with the Scriptures mentioned above. These facts lead to the conclusion that the gift of tongues has ceased or is at least a rarity in God's plan for the church today.