I think you're right, at least mostly. I could like a little bit of definition, but not much. I think that men and women do (probably unconsciously) look for fitness and good looks in the other for the healthy offspring. My dad told me a long time ago to go to my girls house early on and look at the pics on the wall, to see what the babies/kids look like, and to see what the wife will look like when she's older. That's a good idea!
Too many muscles will reduce a womans fertility? Huh. learn something new everyday.
I read somewhere once that if a girl has problems getting pregnant, that it is almost always a deficiency in vitamin E. I dunno if that's true or not, but it could be I suppose.
Well, I'm off to work now, have a blessed day!