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Edward said:
Do you all believe in "soul mates"? I do not. I think every man has the capacity to love any woman (and vice versa). It's just a matter of getting to know them and becoming close over time.

Put a man in a room with a stranger girl, alone. If the girl doesn't like him, she will let him know and not receive any of his compliments and so forth. Even if he pays her much attention. Two days later, let another girl into the room. Irregardless of if the 2nd girl like him or not, he will pay more attention to her. Now the first girl doesn't like the guy, but she will miss the attention and become jealous on some level because she misses the attention...even if she didn't like him. :yes
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Where do you get all these generalizations from?
Even in high school if I didn't like a guy I was thrilled when he got interested in someone else! I was happy, he was happy, and hopefully she was happy.
 
kiwidan said:
They do miss the attention. My friend of mine his partner kicked him out there house the other month because she dont love him anymore, and then within a week she had another man. Now there not together, and she keeps ringing my friend wanting him back after she kicked him out of there house and went through the courts and lawyers and everything to fully seperate. LOL. Now she wants him back because hes a good guy and always gave her attention and cared for her and hes like Sorry, Bye.
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You can get men and women that are fickle.They don't want the responibility of a relationship that goes too far.If you give a man everything he wants he might get bored with that.He figures he will go on and get something new.That goes with women too.That is why a Christian couple should not have sex before they get married.I saw on the internet there is a community of engaged single couples who do not kiss until they are married.That is cool.The tempation would be hard.
 
kiwidan said:
I guess it just goes on the individual be it Male or Female. Both can be selfish and greedy at times. I know its none of my business really but i think my friend was used. He payed the deposit on the house and payed it off and also most stuff was his yet she got everything because he just could not be bothered with the dramas so just gave her everything rather than making it complicated. Since everything is now hers and under her name she suddenly wants him back. I think she was just some sort of control freak because hes a really quiet , peaceful and humble guy and easy going, i have know him a long time.
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He probably was used.The best way to start a relationship is to get to know that person very well.Some of the best marriages is when a couple have been good friends for several years.Respect for each other is very important.There are alot of control freaks out there.Some women can come off as sweet as sugar but underneith.....WATCH OUT!!!
 
kiwidan said:
Goes both ways. Guys can be players. I usually learn from others mistakes. What i have learnt is what you just said. Get to know someone well first before commitment. I know so many people who just jump into relationships only to end some months or years later than ends up in complications especially if they have kids and real estate. Courts and all sorts of dramas.
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Yes,it can go both ways.You can not let your heart rule your brain.If a person is jumping into a relationship too fast there is something wrong.I used to feel like my life was worth nothing without a man.There is something wrong there.I am totally the opposite now.Thank you God :)
 
Deborah13 said:
Where do you get all these generalizations from?
Even in high school if I didn't like a guy I was thrilled when he got interested in someone else! I was happy, he was happy, and hopefully she was happy.
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:lol I've just been paying attention, lol. Girls have always fascinated me so I have been studying them my whole life, lol.
Of course there will always be exceptions to the rule, and you wreck the curve Deborah, lol. :lol
 
Now that the ball has rolled of the pitch....


Soul mate? Sure! There is only one person for you (unless the person dies...and you go for another)

Reasons:

1. Marry a Christian - specificity
2. God specified a particular person for Abraham and the rest of them etc
3. Why pray for God's direction for a spouse?
4. Secretly missing someone who's gone etc etc
 
Classik said:
Now that the ball has rolled of the pitch....


Soul mate? Sure! There is only one person for you (unless the person dies...and you go for another)

Reasons:

1. Marry a Christian - specificity
2. God specified a particular person for Abraham and the rest of them etc
3. Why pray for God's direction for a spouse?
4. Secretly missing someone who's gone etc etc
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Aren't we suppose to pray to God for direction in everything?
 
Edward said:
:lol I've just been paying attention, lol. Girls have always fascinated me so I have been studying them my whole life, lol.
Of course there will always be exceptions to the rule, and you wreck the curve Deborah, lol. :lol
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Dude I keep telling you this: you can't possibly "study" half of humankind and hope to learn more than generalities (that may not apply in single cases, because individuals vary greatly).
 
Edward said:
Do you all believe in "soul mates"? I do not. I think every man has the capacity to love any woman (and vice versa). It's just a matter of getting to know them and becoming close over time.
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Some people experience some "meeting one's soul mate" kind of thing. Good for them. I would guess if you belief that your partner was made specifically for you by some higher power and you for them then you are more willing to invest into the relationship and less likely to break up over conflicts.
However, I tend to agree with you: rather than lucky fate a happy relationship is hard work most of all.
However there are some limits to who can love whom I guess. Physical attraction and body chemistry is more important than many people would admit, at least for those of us the consider sexuality a vital part of marriage.

Put a man in a room with a stranger girl, alone. If the girl doesn't like him, she will let him know and not receive any of his compliments and so forth. Even if he pays her much attention. Two days later, let another girl into the room. Irregardless of if the 2nd girl like him or not, he will pay more attention to her. Now the first girl doesn't like the guy, but she will miss the attention and become jealous on some level because she misses the attention...even if she didn't like him. :yes
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Well becoming jealous and wanting attention is not love; neither would it be a base for a marriage.
But what you say only works with women that are insecure and need a guy's attention to feel good. Any confident and secure woman wouldn't miss the attention of a guy she doesn't like.
 
Claudya said:
Some people experience some "meeting one's soul mate" kind of thing. Good for them. I would guess if you belief that your partner was made specifically for you by some higher power and you for them then you are more willing to invest into the relationship and less likely to break up over conflicts.
However, I tend to agree with you: rather than lucky fate a happy relationship is hard work most of all.
However there are some limits to who can love whom I guess. Physical attraction and body chemistry is more important than many people would admit, at least for those of us the consider sexuality a vital part of marriage.


Well becoming jealous and wanting attention is not love; neither would it be a base for a marriage.
But what you say only works with women that are insecure and need a guy's attention to feel good. Any confident and secure woman wouldn't miss the attention of a guy she doesn't like.
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You have to be sure that a sexual and physical attraction is not number one in a relationship.You might then get into a lustful relationship with someone and that is not good.
 
Kathi said:
You have to be sure that a sexual and physical attraction is not number one in a relationship.You might then get into a lustful relationship with someone and that is not good.
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That's what the dating/ engagement time is for.
But marrying the wrong person or marrying for the wrong reasons is one of the risks that you have to take when making a commitment choice. Marriage is a very risky decision. :lol
 
Claudya said:
That's what the dating/ engagement time is for.
But marrying the wrong person or marrying for the wrong reasons is one of the risks that you have to take when making a commitment choice. Marriage is a very risky decision. :lol
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Yes,a person tries to make a lifetime choice.A person should not give away their heart easily.
 
Claudya said:
Dude I keep telling you this: you can't possibly "study" half of humankind and hope to learn more than generalities (that may not apply in single cases, because individuals vary greatly).
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Certainly there will be exceptions to the rule, there always is! Many of the exceptions are here on this board in fact. The women who pursue God are the smartest and most stable girls of all. I have said this before, perhaps you don't recall that. In fact I think I said this earlier in this thread. :)

But even with exceptions to the rule, most girls could be like that, so I am really not wrong. I understand that you are the type of girl who could not even fathom some of the things I say about women, because you are one that is different and wreck the curve. The girls who wreck the curve are indeed the ones who make the best wives incidentally.

Claudya said:
Some people experience some "meeting one's soul mate" kind of thing. Good for them. I would guess if you belief that your partner was made specifically for you by some higher power and you for them then you are more willing to invest into the relationship and less likely to break up over conflicts.
However, I tend to agree with you: rather than lucky fate a happy relationship is hard work most of all.
However there are some limits to who can love whom I guess. Physical attraction and body chemistry is more important than many people would admit, at least for those of us the consider sexuality a vital part of marriage.
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I agree. While I do not believe in the soul mate (theory), I do believe that two can become so close that they share some of the benefits that are commonly misconstrued as soul mates. It's probably the power of Love. In the early years of my marriage, me and my wife were very close, and we could almost talk telepathically it seemed. With a glance we could know what the other was thinking, and I remember several times that we were sitting there talking, and without a word being spoken, we changed the subject each within our own minds. One of us would say something then (on a different subject than what we were talking about) and the other would be like, I was just thinking the same thing. Even on an unrelated subject. Some would say that we were telegraphing things to each other but I know this was not the case. I think that physical attraction and body chemistry does play a pretty big part in this connection, however, it would be the love that connects and bonds, I have wondered before if a man and wife, if it were as it is supposed to be, with total loyalty and both going into it as virgins, if they would have such a bond that they could speak telepathically and so forth.

Claudya said:
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Well becoming jealous and wanting attention is not love; neither would it be a base for a marriage.
But what you say only works with women that are insecure and need a guy's attention to feel good. Any confident and secure woman wouldn't miss the attention of a guy she doesn't like.
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You are exactly right, but then again...most women are insecure. It is indeed not love and an impulse brought on by a state of insecurity and lack of confidence like you said. But you girls here, for the most part, wreck the curve.

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Classik said:
Christian female dancers and models
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Female models.They like then tall and very skinny :)
 
Yeah, but when we talk about women, one thing leads to another and life/women is so complicated that in a way...it is sort've relevant. ;)
 
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