Hi gordon777
So, if your complaint is that you just can't know the true heart of everyone standing around you in a worship service and therefore think you are somehow sinning before God to be among them, I'd say yes, if it's the leadership of the fellowship that is rotten, but no if it's just some congregants. You don't know that one day that congregant sitting among you, won't understand and believe. If, on the other hand the leadership teaches some different gospel or Scripturally bereft message, or harbors some sinful attitudes, I'd take myself out of them and not take them out of me. I'd leave that fellowship.
God bless,
Ted
It's a tough lesson, and one that our sinful hearts are loath to learn...we cannot control how others live their lives. I think the Scriptures are pretty clear that we're going to have unbelievers, unrepentant sinners who join with us. Now, if we know that they are living a sinful life, then I think there is evidence that we can address that. But to just go around trying to make sure that we're always with perfect people who love the Lord by some sort of test that one might individually apply to everyone in their fellowship, is not something I find taught clearly in the Scriptures. In fact, I'd say that God has given us provision to accept them and pray for them and to teach them. But yes, eventually, if they persist in some obvious sin, then they can be put out of fellowship. But there is a method to that process.If anyone is joined to a church that has millions of members, all around them are unknown people in their church, they cannot have an idea who they really are, what they do, but they are one body with them anyway.
So, if your complaint is that you just can't know the true heart of everyone standing around you in a worship service and therefore think you are somehow sinning before God to be among them, I'd say yes, if it's the leadership of the fellowship that is rotten, but no if it's just some congregants. You don't know that one day that congregant sitting among you, won't understand and believe. If, on the other hand the leadership teaches some different gospel or Scripturally bereft message, or harbors some sinful attitudes, I'd take myself out of them and not take them out of me. I'd leave that fellowship.
God bless,
Ted