Turning the other cheek is something I have thought about my whole life.The above is the reason we seek first the Kingdom.
Nothing SHOULD be more important.
Do you know why Jesus said to also turn the other cheek if someone slaps you?
It wasn't because He wanted a person to get beat up by someone.
It was to show that the slap meant nothing.
It was a statement that God was more important to the slapped person and the shame of being slapped meant very little. Being slapped was very insulting in Jesus' time. Turning the other cheek also meant the equivalent of not caring what the other person wanted or meant to show by the slap.
The point also is that we're not supposed to do anything that may be harmful.
This could always happen by mistake I guess - I'm sure any situation could arise.
But being harmful is not supposed to be a pattern in our behavior. If anything, we should quiet
a situation, not make it worse.
Jesus didn't mean for us to remain neutral...
It's not enough to stop doing evil.
We should go the other way, beyond neutral,
and do good.
I keep saying SHOULD because no one is perfect...but we are to do our best.
I first thought it was not responding to provocation, which is why when in shared house I did not respond to scarcastic comments or things that were said to be provocative. The problem was this made me a victim rather than a witness.
In later life I learnt turning the other cheek is about not showing the desire to beat another, to dominate is not important, just meeting the needs of another. Being hit on the cheek is nothing in one sense, in another it is a challenge to start a fight. Jesus is saying the emotional love He has through us to others is worth so much more than the one to one power play. So my turning the other cheek without showing love and appreciation of others would be empty. Anyone can turn the other cheek, but to love another in reality and not to dominate or desire to beat another, many cannot understand, because their whole value is based on status and who they can hurt.
I have come across many people who need to be understood and listened to. There lives have often been trying to prove their worth to others and being rejected. Just giving people time and space, a listening ear, a consistent approach and a real desire to be there for them, changes people. I have equally experienced opening up to help another can also be an opportunity to be dumped on, because how dare one believe you could help them. This has made me wary of going into such situations but just leaving a door open.
God bless you