I do believe that Paul misspoke at times. I also believe that Matthew, Mark, Luke and John did as well. As well as Moses, Elijah, Isaiah, and even Amos...they were all human and all prone to mistakes.
I just don't think that anything they ever wrote down that wound up in the Scriptures was misstated. I think the Holy Spirit not only inspired the writers of the Scriptures, but also divinely kept the Scriptures inerrant. I don't believe anything that the Scriptures clearly teach is in error or a "misspeak" by the writer.
As a woman, I don't find Paul to be the least bit chaunistic or unfair to women. I believe that he taught correctly how women are to be treated and how we are to act. However...
Yep, I do have an "however"...
I do think that we can place some of Paul's writings as being contextual to the time and place...such as women not being able to teach men. He highly respected Priscillia and Priscilla taught Apollos. So, we need to examine these passages (as we do with ALL other passages in the Scriptures) within the full light that the Scriptures bring to the issue. Paul was writing to the Corinthians and to the Ephesians to correct some things that were problematic in those churches. Obviously he never meant for his words to be interpreted as that women should never open their mouths to say anything in church, because he also exhorted the Corinthian women to cover their heads when they prayed or prophesied. Also, in his other writings, he shows great respect and love for the women who worked along beside him in his ministry.
As a woman, what I learn from those passages to the Corinthians and to the Ephesians is that we women need to be very careful of how we handle ourselves with our freedom in the Lord. If we are in a situation (such as the women of Corinth and Ephesus were) where things we would do or say would cause problems, then we need to be circumspect. The same goes for men, but women have to be extra cautious at times, we just do. If there is anything unfair about this...it is because of the sinful world we live in. However, my "equal rights" are not as important as the gospel...I'm willing to forgo some "equality" (in the world's eyes) in order to keep the gospel on track.