As we see from the actual scripture in Ephesians 2:4 which you quoted as your proof text, the “us” which you claim are the elect, an elite group of special people who God elected to be saved, and were supposedly saved before they were born,
were all people who Paul plainly says were sons of disobedience and were by nature children of wrath, people who conducted themselves in the lusts of the flesh, and mind… just as the others!
- So when exactly were they elected to be saved?
And you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins, in which you once walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit who now works in
the sons of disobedience, among whom also we all once
conducted ourselves in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and
were by nature children of wrath,
just as the others.
But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us,
Ephesians 2:1-4
- And you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins,
- in which you once walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience,
- among whom also we all once conducted ourselves in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, just as the others.
This verses clearly show that -
we all were by nature children of wrath.
we all conducted ourselves in the lusts of our flesh
We all were the same as the others
No mention of any special elect group of people that God selected to be saved, but quite the contrary, Paul clearly shows that everybody is the same… children of the devil and by nature children of wrath
just as the others.