Having Sex Before You Say I Do With Your Spouse Before You Marry Them!

[th1b.taylor]

but wheres the common courteousy towards the youth?

Son, I was very mild and easy on you, so do you object to knowing the truth? God's Law is just like the speed Limit, not seeing the sign is never an excuse, the law is the law.

 

[Obadiah]

i was confused why it was sin to go to hell. I just realized its because to have sex with someone it is a soul mating thing so it tampers with ourselves meaning self-mutilation and can cause the soul and heart to be unpure by moving forward and to keep dongi so is dirty for the mentality heart and soul so now i understand. im just not aware of the sin part of it from christian perspectives but now i know. sorry, but , i hope i have helped with my newest perspective

I'm not sure I understand all this soul mating and self mutilation stuff you are talking about. I just know that most churches teach that sex outside of marriage is a sin, and they don't really try to explain why. They base this on a word that was translated to English as "fornication". The say fornication mean sex outside of marriage, and fornication is condemned in scripture as sin. Many times we just have to accept that when God tells us something is a sin, that it is a sin. He has the right to decide what is sin and what is not sin whether we understand and agree or not. It's just something we have to accept or suffer the consequences.

Now as I alluded to before, you will find Christians who say that while fornication involves sex outside of marriage, that in itself is not truly fornication. Maybe you've run into some of those. But this is outside of the teachings of mainstream Christianity.

 

[Obadiah]

And alas, with that I have to try to catch an hour's sleep before I start a 10 hour overnight shift at work tonight. I'll check back after I get to work later.

 

[Roro1972]

well most people want to make sure their partner knows whats they're doing y'kno so they're experimenting. its like in elementary and high school... they practice to be a better kisser, they practive sex in different areas. It could be that, or it could just be the soul mating i nwhich they feel eachothers presence of soul/spirit and feel the power of enrgery they have bonded with eachother and crave mroe than just a simple hug. It's a struggle between ritual and murphys law. for some, this just may happen.

It's not like you will go to hell for this, its mroe like, what you should do is wait i suppose but sex is a aprt of lfie for some lfiestyles/lifes too... God would just look at it at the gates of Heaven in the perspective of true hearts and stuff like that plus karma would balance it out if it was just for pleasure and you didnt talk to the person or were rude in soem sort of way

I can see you have not read the bible. what you have been taught is all wrong.

 

[Mike]

but wheres the common courteousy towards the youth?

Do you meet the criteria to post in the Parenting & Marriage Forum? The description of this forum reads:

"You must be over 18 and be married, and/or have offspring, and/or be engaged to post here. Otherwise please use the Singles, Courtship & Dating forum."

Every member should be cognizant of this.

 

[Lewis]

They marry without the ceremony, Jesus told the women at the well that she had 5 husbands, because she was penetrated 5 times and became one flesh. Genesis 2:24

 

[dirtfarmer]

dirtfarmer here

Where did Adam and Eve get their marriage license? There was no preacher or government official to perform the ceremony, but God said "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh." God said that it was not good for man to be alone, man needs a "help meet". Adam didn't find an "help meet" among the animals so God made one from Adam's side.

I don't know, but I have heard that when a man copulates that some of his blood(life) is in the semen. Therefore when a man and a woman co-habitat, the life of that man is transferred to the woman and they become one. If this is true, when a women has multiple mates there is confusion because there are multiple unions of that woman with all the males that she has had relationship with.