God would have preferred if Adam and Eve had learned the difference between good and evil by choosing good. What you say is in line with what the serpent said who accused God of wishing them to remain in a state of innocence or ignorance.
Genesis 3:1-8 (NASB)
1 Now the serpent was more crafty than any beast of the field which the LORD God had made. And he said to the woman, "Indeed, has God said, 'You shall not eat from any tree of the garden'?"
2 The woman said to the serpent, "From the fruit of the trees of the garden we may eat;
3 but from the fruit of the tree which is in the middle of the garden, God has said, 'You shall not eat from it or touch it, or you will die.'"
4 The serpent said to the woman, "You surely will not die!
5 "For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil."
6 When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with her, and he ate.
7 Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loin coverings.
8 They heard the sound of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God among the trees of the garden.
The "serpent" (a figure of Satan, the devil) was a liar - in fact, the "Father of Lies" (
John 8:44). What then, should you make of the serpent's insinuation that God wanted to keep divine knowledge of good and evil from Adam and Eve? What was their condition in Eden prior to the Fall? As I pointed out, they enjoyed direct, personal, unhindered communion with their Maker. Nothing in the Creation narrative suggests that God wanted to alter this circumstance by giving Adam and Eve a moral understanding beyond what they possessed right from the start.
However I agree with the choice to love God is seen in obedience to him.
Yes, love is expressed in obedience. But obedience isn't actually itself the love that produces it; love
precedes and
produces obedience. Far too many Christians get this mixed up. They think that obedience to God's commands
is loving God. But these same believers have hearts far from God - just like the Pharisees of Jesus' time who were professionally-obedient to His law (
Matthew 15:8). It's quite common for Christians to be obeying God in externals - no swearing, no drinking alcohol, no gambling, no going to strip clubs, etc. - but neglecting entirely the First and Great Commandment upon which all obedience to God rests. (
Matthew 22:36-38)
This is the state-of-affairs of the people in the terrible story Jesus told in
Matthew 7:21-23. In defense of themselves to Christ, they point to good things they'd done in his name - prophesying, miracles, exorcisms - but
they never mention obeying the First and Great Commandment. This is a strange approach for those trying to make a case for entrance into God's kingdom on the basis of their obedience to God's will. And Jesus calls them out on it, rejecting them despite their good deeds.
Paul the apostle emphasized this need for love as the ground of our good deeds in his letter to the believers at Corinth. He wrote to them that, no matter what they said, or knew, or did, if these things were not arising from love, first for God and then for others, it was all
useless.
1 Corinthians 13:1-3 (NASB)
1 If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
2 If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.
3 And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing.
Obedience is important - but only as a reflection, or expression, of the love a person has in their heart for God. If there is obedience without love, it's all for nothing. God doesn't accept our obedience except it arises from a desire, a longing and passion, for Him. But it's a deeper, impossible-to-counterfeit matter to truly love God with one's heart, to obey His First and Great Commandment, because where we might deceive others about the motive for our obedience to God's other commands, there is no deception possible concerning the First and Great Commandment, which is about our attitude, our desire for, God. He looks upon our hearts and is never deceived about what is in them.
This is seldom heard in church today but instead those who would claim to love God just need to feel warm and gooey when modern "worship" music is played and their heart is stirred again.
Yes, sentimentality, semi-romantic feelings of affection, for God do not necessarily have anything to do with actually loving Him. Such feelings, as you point out, can be aroused merely by poignant music and the influence of crowds. Gratefulness, too, is often confused with loving God. But no man would marry a woman who was merely grateful to him. He would want a woman who desired him above all other men, who loved him. So, too, with God. He wants us to desire Him, to thirst after Him, above all else. And when we do, we find in that desire, that love, for God a joyful motivation for obedience to Him that is more powerful than fear, or duty, or religious pride can ever be!