Not sure what you mean but the "if" is definitely there. In Greek it is "eau." If ye love me, keep my commandments. The alternatively is also true, if we do not keep his commands, we do not love Him or not much. To the degree we obey, to that same degree we love.
Well, when I use the word "if," I'm using a conditional word, a word that is conditioned upon something. For example: If Tommy drinks poison, he will die. In this instance, Tommy's death is conditioned upon, or predicated upon, his drinking poison. Only if Tommy drinks poison will he be killed by it. But
before Tommy dies of the poison, he must first drink it; the drinking of the poison is the necessary condition for dying of it. Can you see that drinking the poison and dying of it are not identical things?
In the same way, loving God comes
before obeying Him - or it should.
Because Tommy loves God, he will obey Him; love for God must exist in Tommy
before he obeys God because his obedience is supposed to arise
from his love for God. It can't be, then, that Tommy's love for God and the way he expresses that love are the exact same thing. And so, we say, as Christ did, "
If you (Tommy, me, Dorothy Mae, or whoever), keep my commandments." Tommy must
first desire God - that is, love Him - and
then he may express that love in obedience to God's commands.
So in your view does a believer WAIT until they love God to obey? If they don't feel love do they then needs not obey?
What do you mean by "feel love"? What does God mean by "love"? Does He mean a sentimental, semi-romantic feeling of affection, as many Christians do? Absolutely not. God is not my boyfriend in whose arms I want to snuggle, like so many modern praise choruses describe. Yuck. By "love," God - and I - mean
desire which may, or may not, have any emotional dimension whatever. When I trained as a martial artist, I did not wait for a teary-eyed emotion of semi-romantic affection for training before I trained. In fact, I can't recall a single time when thinking or talking about training ever moved me emotionally. My love for training didn't show up in such displays but in a persistent and consistent participation in the costly effort of training. I wanted to train very much; I had a powerful desire to do so; but there was no particular
emotional content to this desire. This is true of many desires we humans have: When I desire to sleep, I don't necessarily have a feeling of affection for sleep, I just want to sleep; when I desire a glass of water, I don't necessarily experience an emotion of affection for water, I just go and get a glass of water and drink it; when I desire food, I don't necessarily weep tears of affection for pizza, I just order some.
So, too, when it comes to my desire - my love - for God and others. I want God and want the best for others but these desires, these loves, don't necessarily have an emotional component. Instead, I just pursue God and the well-being of others in my life, even when it costs to do so. This is surprisingly easy to do when the Power Source for this love is the Holy Spirit (
Romans 5:5; 15:30; Galatians 5:22; 2 Timothy 1:7). It's actually
his love, not mine, that God wants from me. My own human love is foul, selfish, contingent and short-lived. God's is not. And when, by my submission to God, the Spirit is free to fill me up with himself,
his holy, unlimited love flows out of me, both to God and to others.
You seem to want believers to wait until they feel love for God to obey him.
That all depends upon what you mean by "feel love for God." See above.
Can you give examples please.
Sure. Though, the key to living in Self-denial isn't a feeling of love but
submission to God. I often ask myself these days, "Who is this?" If the answer is "Me," it's time to submit again to God. A rebel toward God - which is what I am when I am steering my own course through things - cannot expect to be properly empowered by Him. And so, when I am, or am tempted to be, frustrated, or temperamental, or passive, or fearful, or whatever, my first action isn't to rebuke myself, or quote Scripture to myself, or push myself down, it's to
surrender myself anew to God. And so long as the impulse toward something I know is myself, that is fleshly, and not God continues, my response is to surrender again - and again, if necessary. As I said, this is the Great Battle of the Christian life, not forcing myself to deny what I want.
As I persist in remaining yielded to God, He responds to my agreement to His alteration of my thinking, and desires, and conduct (which is what my submission is, essentially), by dissolving the power of my fleshly impulses and creating in me new, godly desires. Often, I find myself well beyond a crossroad of temptation before I realize I've moved along God's way. His power is so profound and natural, I don't often see that He has worked until after the fact. This is an important way I distinguish Self-effort from the Spirit's work: Self-effort leaves me exhausted but the work of the Spirit moves me from strength to strength.
So, when I am talking with my wife, I often ask God to be in control of my desires, thinking, attitudes and words. I want my wife to meet Christ in me, not just me. As we talk together, if I become aware that the answer to the question "Who is this?" is "me," I submit again to God. I do the same thing when I'm driving, or discipling someone, or sitting idle, waiting to do something, or whatever.
In the garden, he was not joyful. Despising is not a joyful experience. You can read about the experience and it was NOT marked by Jesus being joyful.
Are you calling the writer of Hebrews a liar? I'm sure that's not what you intend, but it sounds like it, here. The prospect of horrendous pain did not fill Jesus with delight, but the "joy set before him" moved him into crucifixion, regardless. It is not essential to divine joy to be easy, comfortable and safe, you see. Such joy is not anchored in circumstance but
in God and so it can be present, as God always is, even in the midst of terrible suffering.
Perhaps you mean well. Perhaps you are being condescending.
You'll see what you expect to see, I suspect. Condescension, however, is not my attitude but, rather, a desire to see my brothers and sisters in the Lord enjoying him abundantly.
But I will take the first and comfort you by telling you that I have experienced more than once, the thrill (and "thrill" is an understating the experience but the best English can offer) of God being pleased with my obedience.
Oh, sister, this is settling for a lesser thing. God would give you
Himself in an overflowing measure, not merely His approval. He is our "exceeding great reward," just as He was for Abraham (
Genesis 15:1). The approval of God is merely the by-product of a life filled with Him. The Joy and Wonder of the Christian life is a daily experience of God Almighty, His life increasingly replacing our own. (
Romans 8:29; Galatians 2:20; 2 Corinthians 3:18; 4:10-11)
That is easy to understand as we know a person loves another by the choices they make to deny themselves and the greater the denial, the greater the love.
It's the other way 'round: the greater our love for God, the greater our obedience to Him and delight in dying to ourselves that His life might manifest more fully in us. In God's economy of things, love
precedes obedience, never the other way around.
It says they did not even know they were naked. Now here is see a difficulty. You say you obey God easily and that is never a struggle but you are comfortable with changing what the text says.
??? I don't know what you're talking about here.
The Devil himself did not tell them they already knew good so why not experience bad. He did not think they knew good. Why would they eat it if they knew good already? Makes no sense.
You're ignoring my point about Adam and Eve knowing The Good personally, who is God. Inasmuch as they knew Him, they knew Good. Do you deny this? The ultimate locus of all good is God, right? Or do you think there is some other source of good?
What you are trying to do is think of how it would be if you were there but we do not know the mental state of a grown man and woman who, like small children, have no understanding of more right and wrong.
Being ignorant of the distinction between moral right and wrong did not mean Adam and Eve were childish, unable to comprehend things in an adult way. There is nothing in the Genesis account of the Fall that suggests to me they were childish in their understanding and conduct. Innocent, yes, but not childish; these aren't the same thing.
So, does a believer WAIT until they feel love for God overwhelming their other desires so that obedience is easy and pleasant and costs them nothing? Until obedience becomes easy, they needs not obey?
See above.