The only logical conclusion to such a view is that man actually saves himself with God's help.
No. The view that man in some sense "co-operates" in attaining salvation should not be deformed into an assertion that man therefore deserves substantial "credit" for the end result of salvation (as in your misleading characterization that "man saves himself with God's help").
It is not fair argument to take a statement like this:
"
My salvation would not come about if I did not freely do a certain action"
.....and morph it into
this assertion:
"
I deserve substantial credit for my salvation"
Analogy: Suppose a baseball fan reaches over the fence and catches a flyball that
otherwise would have been caught by a Chicago Cub player, resulting in the Cubs winning the World Series. But the fan
did interfere, and the Red Sox go on to win the World Series. Would the Red Sox have won if the fan had not interfered? Admitedly no.
But does the fan, in any reasonable sense, deserve any credit at all for the Red Sox winning the Series? No, that fan does
not deserve credit. The real credit goes to the players on the Red Sox. At most, a
miniscule amount of credit properly goes to the fan.
Yet
some in the Calvinist camp will play a similar bait and switch game, instilling in the mind of the reader the idea that if I play
any kind of
determining role in my salvation, I therefore deserve substantial credit for the end result. This is simply not a valid line of reasoning.