Orion said:
That shouldn't be something for me to answer. If there is a god out there who actually cares enough about me, then with it's advanced knowledge, it will be able to know exactly how I would be reached.
He has already given you evidence of His existence and his love - but you don't acknowledge it so what should God do?
It would know that function of "the great commission" [ie. personal experiences of people] wouldn't be enough to convince me. However, to answer your question to the best of MY ability, . . . I would say it would take an actual conversation with god, where I was certain that it was actually happening, that I wasn't under the influence of some mind altering substance, and it happened more than one time. Then this god was able to fully and adequately answer my questions in a way that would make sense to me. I'm quite open to this.
How can God have an actual conversation with you if you don't believe in Him and question the way He does things? For example, since you don't believe in God and God knew you wouldn't believe in Him didn't prevent Him of sending His Son to die on a cross by His very creation. God knew there was a possibility you would reject this yet He did it anyway.
Rom 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
I want to address, however, those "four things" you mentioned. Are you sure?
100%
When it is common to hear, "repent or go to Hell", that is a way of getting a response out of people who are afraid of going to Hell. It IS an "intimidation" and a "manipulation".
Well, there's several ways to look at this. For example, what's the definition of hell? Also, if one rejects the obvious advances of love shown to them by God is it God's fault that those advances are rejected? Lastly, is it "intimidation" and a "manipulation" if the true side of God is not presented?
Before I became a Christian I could never understand a "loving" God torching someone forever that made a choice not to love Him. Didn't seem right. But in examining my Bible everyday for many years now I see a God that never forces anyone to do anything they don't want to do. He allows people do to what they want even if is contrary to His word of truth.
RND said:
To truly love unconditionally, one must be given a free choice to make a decision. God has taken the risk by allowing free choice.
A TRUE "free choice decision" wouldn't include a "negative response for the wrong choice" though.
Depends on your view of what's negative I suppose. I might liken being in the presence of God as being at a party or event where you were uncomfortable and didn't want to be there - maybe you didn't know the people, maybe you were an outsider, etc. If you want to leave God is not going to stop you. However, if you want to mingle and socialize God certainly would encourage it!
Look at it this way. If you have no desire to enjoy a relationship with God then He is under no obligation to have a relationship with you. That's choice. But God chooses to woo you anyway because of His love. He feeds you, cares for you, puts a roof over your head, and gives you evidence of His existence daily.
He doesn't want you to perish. Yet, if you want to make the choice of not being with Him and enjoying His presence He won't prevent you from making that choice. In other words, Heaven and paradise with God for all eternity would be literal 'hell' for those that don't want to be with God.
And it wouldn't be "one of only TWO places to chose from".
What other choices are there?