There were two members that joined about the same time both claiming to be "really born again" and it was over a book name "Muscle and A Shovel" the author of the book was/is Church of Christ, that thread ended up being closed if i remember correctly.. maybe a moderator could dig it out..
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tob
One church or a group of churches or people does not necessarily define an entire denomination or mean they're all that way.
As an example of what I'm trying to say:
I've been attending baptist churches most of my life. (Two for a good length of actual attendance, others I've visited, and plenty of baptists I know both on social media and in real life.) There's quite a lot of variety in this denomination. I've seen some lines of thinking and doctrinal views that I'm honestly not particularly on board with, among certain places or people within the denomination.
I'm on a baptist forum, and on the site calvinism vs arminianism (free will vs predestination?) is a
huge and very heated subject of debate. Contrast to the church I grew up in and the one I know attend, which so far as I'm aware fall into neither category and believes that God grants free will and that salvation cannot be lost. (As I understand it, neither calvinism nor arminianism teach the latter.)
Calvinistic baptists do not represent all baptists.
Calvinistic baptists that talk badly about arminianistic baptists do not represent all baptists.
Arminian baptists do not represent all baptists.
Arminianistic baptists that talk badly about calvinisitic baptists do not represent all baptists.
Baptists that simply believe OSAS do not represent all baptists.
Baptists that call OSAS a false gospel do not represent all baptists.
Independent baptists do not represent all baptists.
Primitive baptists do not represent all baptists.
Southern baptists do not represent all baptists. (Though they actually have a board that offers some form of doctrinal unity. But there is a lot of variety within that sphere, too.)
People are hugely varied in their opinions and philosophies, even in their understanding of Scripture, and this shows up even in groups where you'd think they'd be more united in their thinking.
Granted I really know very little about the CoC as a whole. I'm just saying I wouldn't broad brush them over a bad individual experience.