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We were all unbelievers. God chose us; we didn't choose Him. I have only my personal experience in which I can relate. I don't ever remember a time in my life when I said, I'm going to go out and find God now. So, if the desire to draw closer to Him didn't come from me, then where did it come from?
I used to hold to the same understanding of foreknowledge as you, but my old belief of pre-ordination keeps creeping up on me. I used to fight it; just ask mondar, Lovely and some others here. I refuse to fight it anymore, because I feel I'm only wrestling with God.
I'm not the least bit afraid to admit I do not have the "free will" I though I once possessed. Free will is not really free. It is contingent upon the choices available to mankind. Now ask yourself; who is in control of the choices you have? Are you free to dive deep in the ocean without protection and expect to live? Can you exist in space without same protection? Why not? Can't you will yourself to do so?
It may seem like I'm going off on a tangent, but grasping who is really in charge and how sovereignty operates goes far in understanding the unconditional love of God.
A murderer hath no eternal life abiding in them. So God's love is conditional .
That's not entirely true. Are you saying this because you truly believe it or are you trying to convince yourself? Please consider the context of John's epistle and his target audience. Consider why he was telling them this. I don't believe the text is saying what you believe it to be saying. One must also consider the circumstances of the murder before one condemns them for all eternity.
Would you like me to find you some murderers in the Bible that were still found to be in God's good graces? There are several... many, if I knew where they all were.
Yes, that would be the unconditional love of the Lord. May I ask you what is your definition of agape?
[quote:15ynnesu]If God's love was not conditional, then there would absolutely be no need for a place called the "second death".