Thank you for your commentary. I answered your question.
Will you be so kind as to answer the question i have asked.
Paul says this is a great Mystery!
31 "For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." 32 This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
If this refers to Jesus Christ, who are the others this scripture refers to?
Thanks JLB
Sure, I can try.
You quoted Ephesians 5:31-32 and asked who, other than Jesus, does the Word of God refer to.
The first part of your quote comes from the 2nd Chapter of Genesis where we read,
"And Adam said, This [is] now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh." The Apostle to the Gentiles quoted Genesis and revealed the mystery [in other words, the allegory behind the union of matrimony], saying that it refers to Christ and the Church.
Ephesians chapter 4 admonishes Christians to walk in unity, in peace and in harmony, endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit. In chapter 5 and verse 25, Paul continues giving practical application telling husbands to love their wives [with self-sacrificing love],
"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it. [Eph 5:25]. He is saying, "Hubby, you need to love your wife just like Jesus loves you, just like Jesus loves the church, that is, us." The first Adam gave something of himself (a rib) but the last Adam gave all of himself, giving everything for her. Not only are we to love our wives sacrificially, but also unconditionally. Jesus doesn't love the church IF they tithe, or IF they're good boys and girls, or IF they have morning devotions. There are no "IFs" in the love that Christ has for the Church, He loves us, period. Any husband who takes this Scripture at face value and says, "Okay, I'm gonna love my wife unconditionally and I'm going to lay down my life and give her my all," will not have a problem with her loving him submissively.
Ephesians 5:26-28 speaks of the promise.
"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, that he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself."