I can think of a number of threads in the past few months alone about problems with churches, and how many (most?) seem to have lost sight of what's most important. You're certainly not the only one to see problems with many churches today. No one here is saying that nothing needs to be fixed in modern churches.
However, where we disagree is that it's wrong to attend church at all. Not all churches have the problems you are bringing up.
As for pastors being unscriptural...what about these verses:
You could argue that this isn't speaking about pastors, I suppose. But it sure doesn't sound like it's talking about the ruler of your country. And I doubt it's speaking about parents, considering the context of this chapter is worded like it's speaking to adult Christians.
Jeremiah 3:15 said:
And I will give you pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding.
Ephesians 4:11 said:
And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
1 Corinthians 9:14 said:
Even so hath the Lord ordained that they which preach the gospel should live of the gospel.
1 Timothy 3:1-7 said:
This [is] a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work.
Acts 20:28 said:
Take heed therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock, over the which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, to feed the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood.
I Timothy 3:2-13 said:
A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;
Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous; 4 One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;
5 (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
6 Not a novice, lest being lifted up with pride he fall into the condemnation of the devil.
7 Moreover he must have a good report of them which are without; lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.
8 Likewise must the deacons be grave, not doubletongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of filthy lucre;
9 Holding the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience.
10 And let these also first be proved; then let them use the office of a deacon, being found blameless.
11 Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.
12 Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.
13 For they that have used the office of a deacon well purchase to themselves a good degree, and great boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus.
Acts 14:23 said:
And when they had ordained them elders in every church, and had prayed with fasting, they commended them to the Lord, on whom they believed.
Titus 1:7 said:
For a bishop must be blameless, as the steward of God; not selfwilled, not soon angry, not given to wine, no striker, not given to filthy lucre;
2 Timothy 2:2 said:
And the things that thou hast heard of me among many witnesses, the same commit thou to faithful men, who shall be able to teach others also.
Ephesians 4:11-16 said:
11 And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
12 For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:
13 Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:
14 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;
15 But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:
16 From whom the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself in love.
1 Peter 5:1 said:
The elders which are among you I exhort, who am also an elder, and a witness of the sufferings of Christ, and also a partaker of the glory that shall be revealed:
Titus 1:5 said:
For this cause left I thee in Crete, that thou shouldest set in order the things that are wanting, and ordain elders in every city, as I had appointed thee:
In light of these scriptures I was able to look up, it seems that ordaining a pastor is, in fact, most scriptural. It seems to me that the idea of "exec. pastor" is merely a modern day title...exactly what is unscriptural about it?
Please provide relevant verses that are speaking in context about pastors and church leadership.
Yes, some pastors today can be prideful and get more power than they deserve, or try to control everything unquestionably--that would presumably be why there are verses on being careful in choosing a pastor. Scripture also does seem to suggest that the job of running the church and preaching the word was never meant to be laid on one person.