I'll double check, but the thing is, even if I find it I'm already convinced that you will just say that since it dosen't say specifically (homosexuals) it dosen't count. That's the headache.
Not really. I'm not going to build an argument out of something that is not arguable to my view. I'd rather in such case just state my view. From what I gather our civil rights are bases on race, gender, and religion. Also creed. It's a stretch to say that would include sexual practices or feelings.
You haven't even shown how the attraction to the same sex even effects people negatively. Not once. You haven't even given a non religious reason why its bad, or how it takes any of your liberties away.
That's not something I'm attempting to do. However, your asking me to look outside my morality, which your confusing with the word religion, as if I just fallow some arbitrary rules. That's not the case.
You guys aren't the only ones with a marriage definition. You don't own the entirety. I could get state married, and have a license and be married. That is it.
Legally no. Your correct. you can place any definition you want on it, but God does own the definition and it does not include two men or two women, or anything else outside one man and one woman.
You really don't understand me. Can you name my favorite color, food, place to eat, tv show, my best friend's name? If you can't then you don't know me at all. I've also taken enough psychology and philosophy classes to know the context of your question. You're not saying you actually know me, you are just conforming me to a preconceived notion of all humanity.
;) I could say the same, right? However, I know you as a human. I know your struggling with homosexuality in that you've been confused by it, and hurt by it. I know you've been made fun of, rejected and misunderstood by others.
What hurts me the most in thinking what it must be like for you, is to think that much of your rejection probably came from the church and other Christians.
If you feel sexually about men the way I feel as such about women, then God bless you my friend. I can't imagine what that's like as a man. However, that does not negate your responsibility just as it does not negate mine.
Something you said earlier about how people fear the unknown, speaking about homosexuals. I agree.
A friend of mine has two younger brothers. The middle one is gay. he called me one day to tell me that his brother informed the family. My friend said; "it all made sense now." speaking of his brothers over all behavior. He went on to say how angry and hurt he was.
I did not know quite what to say to him. He said; "what would you do if it was your brother?" so, I said the only thing I could say honestly...."I'd love my brother. What choice would I have?"
So, your right. I don't know you personally, and the truth is I may not even want to. But, who knows you might be a really cool guy. I don't know. But, I know you as a man and while I may not be able to relate to your full condition, God has taught me enough about my own condition that I can honestly say I'm no better in his eyes.
I've been a Christian before and know what you are saying. One of the main reasons I left was because of the psychological teat down it did to me. I responds to threats, and I've read your holy book. Your God dose not want me. He wants a servant, works don't matter, only my worship of him.
It's God's book not mine. I know there are things in his word you don't agree with. I struggled with some of what he has to say also, but as my relationship with Christ has grown over the years I've been able to see his word more clearly. It starts with trusting God with what you can first.
Being a Christian is not about just reading the bible, going to church, and my favorite..."being good".
It's about a relationship with God who does want you and who does love you more so than anyone else on this earth could ever possibly. Even despite your sin. How's that?
Now I know there are Christians on this board who will disagree, and you can listen to them if you want, but if your not good enough for God as you are then I promise you they are not either. OK, and that's biblical truth. You can check it out and decide for yourself.
My faith in Jesus Christ is a personal relationship above anything else. It trumps my wife, my kids...everything. It comes first even before my own desires and wishes.
I don't know what will come of this issue of Gay rights in man's world. I don't know. I support your right to be protected under the law. I can't legally make you into a Christian, or tell you to love God or get you to see yourself as God does. If I could that would be great, because that's what I want for you. If I could take your pain and sin away I would, but I can't.
But, you know what? I don't have to. Jesus already did that. So what I'm I going to do? Well, I'm going to love you despite you as best I can. What choice do I have if I'm to say that I love Christ? That does not include supporting you in a marriage to another man, but it does not include totally rejecting you because you think that's possible either. Real marriage is tough enough as God would have it. I honestly don't want to see you or anyone else hurt from the idea of thinking that marriage is based on sexual attraction and feelings, because it just not.