Respectfully, what I read into this statement is that we must essentially box ourselves in because of what western society thinks.
We are told that we should not conform to the world (Romans 12:2). And so how is it biblical (or even correct, for that matter) to allow society's view of a thing to define the thing itself?
Society also tells us that marriage is a joke - it is a tax bracket, a gateway for insurance and benefits, a contract of convenience, and even for some just a guarantee for sex (which is like buying a 747 to get peanuts, but I'll digress).
So considering society's view on marriage, does that mean Christians shouldn't marry, as well?
Unless, of course, I completely misread your statement. In that case, please accept my apologies and ignore this little rant of mine. :dunce
God bless.