Over the years, I have seen successful tithing. Those people gave a tithe thinking they were being obedient, plus they gave with a joyful heart and God blessed because He saw their heart....I have seen the opposite. These people thought that their financial woes were due to the fact that they did not tithe. Their Pastor counseled them to begin to tithe. They did for quite some time and fell into deep debt. Obviously they stopped tithing before bankruptcy happened.
The only time I tithed was when I was a Pastor of a Church. I did so because my salary was from the Church and the people. I felt so grateful for the funds that I gave back to the Lord according to the tithe....Since then, about 26 years, my Wife and I have not tithed. We pay our monthly obligations, we give to the Church whats in our happy heart to give. We feel that to give out of pressure or obligation is wrong because it's not with a joyful heart that motivates us to give.
There is a particular homeless man who sits outside the Pharmacy I frequent. Sometimes he is outside waiting for a generous person to give him some change. I usually give him at least $10.00. One cold Winter day in November, he was outside. I asked him if he was hurting. He replied that he hadn't eaten in a while. Across the street, there is a main st grill that makes super hamburgers. I gave him $20.00 and sent him to the Grill for some food.
This gentleman was so grateful, I thought he was going to kiss me. That's what giving is all about. I give to Evangelists, Missionaries, and anyone that the Spirit of God lays on my heart. Now, our Lord has met all our needs. There are times when I'm amazed at how the Lord changes our circumstances so that our financial obligations are met. We live in a modest home. We are always "re-modeling" and since we believe that we should not owe man anything but love, we try and maintain this principle.
Tithe? NO. Personally I believe that is Old Covenant obedience to the Law set down for Israel. New Covenant obedience is to the heart of each individual as he/she is led by and walking in the Holy Spirit of God Almighty. Each time we give to the Church and other area's, we are so grateful to our Lord that we have something to give. My Wife and I are so spiritually blessed, that we just keep on the way our hearts guide us.