That husband being our old mind set on the things of the flesh whom we served like a wife submits to and serves a husband--a relationship the law of Moses enforced like a legal certificate of marriage, not delivered us from.
Before, the husband was the sin nature. Since several people have shown you how the sin nature is not dead, but still produces sinful desires, now you have changed your terminology, and the husband is an "old mind set", which Paul never used the phrase -
"mind set", rather he stated that we should set our minds on thing above.
For those who live according to the flesh
set their minds on the things of the flesh...
The husband that died is not a mindset that we were married to.
WE, ourselves must put forth the effort to set our mind on things above, where Christ Jesus is seated at the right hand of God.
4 Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so
we also should walk in newness of life. Romans 6:4
again
Likewise you also,
reckon yourselves to be dead indeed to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 6:11
We are to consider ourselves as dead to sin, and
we are to set our mind on things above, we are to not let sin reign in our bodies, we are to put to death the deeds of the body, by the Spirit.
These are all things
we are required to do, to walk in the newness of the life of Christ.
Therefore
put to death your members which are on the earth: fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.6 Because of these things the wrath of God is coming upon the sons of disobedience, 7 in which you yourselves once walked when you lived in them.8 But now you yourselves are to put off all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth. 9 Do not lie to one another, since you have put off the old man with his deeds, 10 and have put on the new
man who is renewed in knowledge according to the image of Him who created him,11 where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcised nor uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave
nor free, but Christ
is all and in all. Colossians 3:5-11
As long as we continue in the faith, then the Spirit of Christ within us, empowers us to walk in victory over the sin nature dwelling in our flesh.
However, we ourselves must put on the new man, and put off the old.
...that you put off, concerning your former conduct,
the old man which grows corrupt according to the deceitful lusts, 23 and be renewed in the spirit of your mind, 24 and that you put on the new man which was created according to God, in true righteousness and holiness. Ephesians 4:22-24
We are to deny the old man the things which empower him to express himself.
Ungodly sights and sounds and images, stimulate the old man, to the old desires of sin.
Fasting and praying, and being set apart unto God, in a consistent manner is the best way I have found to reign and rule over the old carnal nature.
JLB