The Derailing Thread

[reba]

Is it okay for a pastor to marry someone like this? We should start a thread about that.

joel olsteen did

 

[Jethro Bodine]

joel olsteen did

This is true, but she has such a wholesome quality about her.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

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[Jethro Bodine]

Tell me what you think is wrong with her?She is dressed modestly.

She, on the other hand, has a bit of a seductive quality about her, not a wholesome one.

 

[reba]

beauty is in the eye of the beholder in other words "you're busted"

 

[Jethro Bodine]

beauty is in the eye of the beholder in other words "you're busted"

Oh, she's beautiful. But as we get older and wiser our eyes get more discerning. :wink

 

[Kathi]

She, on the other hand, has a bit of a seductive quality about her, not a wholesome one.

She is pretty..really skinny yes but she is probably a model.What do you call wholesome?Someone like me who wears jeans and t-shirts everyday?You can't take every beautiful woman in the world and cut their head off.Sometimes their beauty goes to their head and that is not cool but that is between them and God.I have known some seriously beautiful women who were very unaffected by their beauty.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

What do you call wholesome?Someone like me who wears jeans and t-shirts everyday?

No. A wholesome woman is one who has an image of purity. Image is much more than just physical looks. It includes one's countenance. A seductive countenance, seductive clothing, seductive gestures, cleavage, project just that--an image of seduction. A woman who seems continually on the hunt for a sexual relationship with a man is extremely unattractive to me personally. That's a self-centered woman a good man needs to stay far, far away from.

 

[Kathi]

No. A wholesome woman is one who has an image of purity. Image is much more than just physical looks. It includes one's countenance. A seductive countenance, seductive clothing, seductive gestures, cleavage, project just that--an image of seduction. A woman who seems continually on the hunt for a sexual relationship with a man is extremely unattractive to me personally. That's a self-centered woman a good man needs to stay far, far away from.

They are a dime a dozen in this world.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

They are a dime a dozen in this world.

I've noticed this. It's getting worse as our society continues on it's godless, narcissistic slide downward.

 

[Kathi]

I've noticed this. It's getting worse as our society continues on it's godless, narcissistic slide downward.

When my daughter was dating her now husband he said " I was going to give up.No one out there".

 

[reba]

When I became of age, my mother called me to her side
She said, "Son you're growing up now
Pretty soon you'll take a bride"
And then she said

"Just because you've become a young man now
There's still some things that you don't understand now
Before you ask some girl for her hand now
Keep your freedom for as long as you can now"

My mama told me, you better shop around
Oh yeah, you better shop around

Oh, there's some things that I want you to know now
Just as sure as the wind's gonna blow now
The women come and the women are gonna go now
Before you tell 'em that you love 'em so now

My mama told me, you better shop around
Oh yeah, you better shop around

I try to get yourself a bargain, son
Don't be sold on the very first one
Pretty girls come a dime a dozen
I try to find you one who's gonna give you true loving

Before you take a girl and say, "I do" now
A Make sure she's in love with you now

My mama told me, you better shop around

Oh hey, hey
Try to get yourself a bargain, son
Don't be sold on the very first one
Pretty girls come a dime a dozen
I try to find you one who's gonna give you true loving

Before you take a girl and say, "I do" now
Make sure she's in love with you now
Make sure that her love is true now
I hate to see you feeling sad and blue now

My mama told me, you better shop around
Oh yeah you better shop around

Oh don't let the first one get you
Oh no 'cause I don't wanna see her with you
Oh before you let 'em hold you tight
Oh make sure she's alright
Oh before you let 'em take your hand my son
Understand my son, be a man my son
I know you can my son, I love you

 

[Kathi]

When I became of age, my mother called me to her side
She said, "Son you're growing up now
Pretty soon you'll take a bride"
And then she said

"Just because you've become a young man now
There's still some things that you don't understand now
Before you ask some girl for her hand now
Keep your freedom for as long as you can now"

My mama told me, you better shop around
Oh yeah, you better shop around

Oh, there's some things that I want you to know now
Just as sure as the wind's gonna blow now
The women come and the women are gonna go now
Before you tell 'em that you love 'em so now

My mama told me, you better shop around
Oh yeah, you better shop around

I try to get yourself a bargain, son
Don't be sold on the very first one
Pretty girls come a dime a dozen
I try to find you one who's gonna give you true loving

Before you take a girl and say, "I do" now
A Make sure she's in love with you now

My mama told me, you better shop around

Oh hey, hey
Try to get yourself a bargain, son
Don't be sold on the very first one
Pretty girls come a dime a dozen
I try to find you one who's gonna give you true loving

Before you take a girl and say, "I do" now
Make sure she's in love with you now
Make sure that her love is true now
I hate to see you feeling sad and blue now

My mama told me, you better shop around
Oh yeah you better shop around

Oh don't let the first one get you
Oh no 'cause I don't wanna see her with you
Oh before you let 'em hold you tight
Oh make sure she's alright
Oh before you let 'em take your hand my son
Understand my son, be a man my son
I know you can my son, I love you

True words back then but now the more you shop around the scarier it gets.That is what I have been told by some nice young men who want a women with morals,values,character and integrity.

 

[reba]

Todays dating is sick... The Duggers are refreshing.. you do not have TV :neutral you might not know of the Duggers.

 

[Gary]

 

[Kathi]

Todays dating is sick... The Duggers are refreshing.. you do not have TV :neutral you might not know of the Duggers.

Nope never heard of them.

 

[reba]

A bit odd in a very good way very large family .... 19 kids.. wholesome God loving ... refreshing... here is the address of their blog..
http://www.duggarfamilyblog.com/

 

[reba]

lol wonderful

 

[Kathi]

A bit odd in a very good way very large family .... 19 kids.. wholesome God loving ... refreshing... here is the address of their blog..
http://www.duggarfamilyblog.com/

Something wholesome and God loving on television????

 

[Gary]

When I became of age, my mother called me to her side
She said, "Son you're growing up now
Pretty soon you'll take a bride"
And then she said

"Just because you've become a young man now
There's still some things that you don't understand now
Before you ask some girl for her hand now
Keep your freedom for as long as you can now"

My mama told me, you better shop around
Oh yeah, you better shop around

Oh, there's some things that I want you to know now
Just as sure as the wind's gonna blow now
The women come and the women are gonna go now
Before you tell 'em that you love 'em so now

My mama told me, you better shop around
Oh yeah, you better shop around

I try to get yourself a bargain, son
Don't be sold on the very first one
Pretty girls come a dime a dozen
I try to find you one who's gonna give you true loving

Before you take a girl and say, "I do" now
A Make sure she's in love with you now

My mama told me, you better shop around

Oh hey, hey
Try to get yourself a bargain, son
Don't be sold on the very first one
Pretty girls come a dime a dozen
I try to find you one who's gonna give you true loving

Before you take a girl and say, "I do" now
Make sure she's in love with you now
Make sure that her love is true now
I hate to see you feeling sad and blue now

My mama told me, you better shop around
Oh yeah you better shop around

Oh don't let the first one get you
Oh no 'cause I don't wanna see her with you
Oh before you let 'em hold you tight
Oh make sure she's alright
Oh before you let 'em take your hand my son
Understand my son, be a man my son
I know you can my son, I love you