Firstly, I'll simply state where I'm coming from, concerning this topic -Calvinism does one thing. It removes "FAITH" out of scriptures.
Then it gives the simple an excuse that whatever happens, it's not their fault. However it turns out, it was God's divine and Sovereign will.
1. I hold the TULIP doctrines to be true.
2. I have never read any of Calvin's works till date, nor have been taught these doctrines by anyone.
After my conversion, I studied Scriptures on my own in a locked room and came to certain conclusions about the nature of God and man. I was unaware at that time that these went by the present common doctrinal names. When I then took to forums and articles on the net, i discovered that TULIP represented my independently inferred beliefs accurately.
This point is to avoid the following line of reasoning -
a) ivdavid believes TULIP is true.
b) TULIP is nowhere to be derived from Scriptures.
c) Therefore, ivdavid derived TULIP from elsewhere, mostly a calvinistic church or other calvinistic teachings.
I do acknowledge the logical possibility that perchance TULIP is False and that I could have misinterpreted Scriptures so miserably as to arrive at TULIP being true - but that still negates the faulty generalization that one can never arrive at these doctrines just by reading the Bible.
3. I identify myself as a Christian alone. If followers of Calvin are termed calvinists, then I do not know the man enough to be loyal to him or trusting of his knowledge/teachings. But if it's a grouping term to denote the set of beliefs one holds, then I'd convey the fact that I too happen to hold TULIP as true by stating concisely that I am a calvinist.
This point is to negate the argument that my position is cultist in nature and to instead clarify that both of us appeal to the same merits of Scripture, though one of us may have understood it wrongly.
As to the above quote, I find that my beliefs in TULIP have only led me to an utter dependence on God through the faith that it is claimed to "remove" - and I have not seen a logical scenario of how a blame game of convenient excuses could emerge out of what I believe. It is one thing for both of us to agree upon the observation and to differ upon the causes and methods - but it's quite another to not agree upon the observation itself.
You'll have to show where Total Depravity states man cannot make his own choices.After all, man is depraved, and can't make his own choices. Man is not much smarter than a monkey.
I believe it states that the man in the flesh does make choices - which are inclined to the flesh (Rom 8:5) , and that the inclinations of the flesh are enmity with God and can Never be subject to His law(Rom 8:7) and therefore, man in the flesh can never please God(Rom 8:8) - which excludes the scenario of "man in the flesh" having faith which pleases God(Heb 11:6).
To which Paul renders the alternative as man having to be "in the spirit" to be obedient and pleasing to God, which is caused(John 3:6) and evidenced by the Holy Spirit dwelling within man(Rom 8:9).
I derive from the above quoted Scriptures the following -
1. That man in the flesh inevitably chooses to be continuously disobedient to God. (Total Depravity)
2. That man needs to be rebirthed in the spirit by the Holy Spirit to prevail over the flesh.
Where exactly do we differ in our beliefs over these?