but you refuse to apply the same literal interpretation to 'coming in the sky where every eye will see and gathering the believers', why the double standard
Because you refuse to see the symbolism inherent in the phrase "coming on the clouds of the sky" as representing His coming in judgment!
I've posted examples like the following before but I dare say everyone who believes as you has never stopped once to see if there is any precedent for these terms in the Old Testament.
Guess what?
THERE ARE!!!
{7} "In my distress I [David] called upon the LORD, Yes, I cried to my God;
And from His temple (what temple? Solomon's temple hadn't yet been built!)He heard my voice, And my cry for help
came into His ears.
{8} "Then the earth shook and quaked, The foundations of heaven were trembling And were shaken, because He was angry. {9} "Smoke went up out of His nostrils, Fire from His mouth devoured; Coals were kindled by it.
{10} "He bowed the heavens also, and came down With thick darkness under His feet.
{11} "And He rode on a cherub and flew;
And He appeared on the wings of the wind. {12} "And He made darkness canopies around Him, A mass of waters, thick clouds of the sky.
{13} "From the brightness before Him Coals of fire were kindled.
{14} "The LORD thundered from heaven, And the Most High uttered His voice.
{15} "And He sent out arrows, and scattered them, Lightning, and routed them.
{16} "Then the channels of the sea appeared, The foundations of the world were laid bare By the rebuke of the LORD, At the blast of the breath of His nostrils. 2 Samuel 22:7-16 (NASB)
Now, look at the same language used in Matthew and Revelation and you tell me if this is to be taken literally, or if it's apocalyptic language symbolizing the wrath of God.
When Paul told Timothy to "study to show himself approved", he wasn't telling him to study the New Testament: it hadn't even all been collected or canonized yet!
He was telling him to study the OLD TESTAMENT, because that's where the key's for gentiles wishing to understand the apostle's words were to be found!
What did Peter quote in all his preaching in Acts??? THE OLD TESTAMENT!!!
I can only encourage you to study the OT. You'll NEVER understand what the New Testament writers were trying to convey until you do.