Ambient,
Who are you to judge how God will judge a man or not? Your making a point that has no point to the reader. How can you say that people are eternally lost that have not heard the Word? Do you have proof of this according to Scripture? You are in a sense questioning God's authority of God. Worry about you, your family, those you love, and your friends and community, let God work out His will to mankind, by using mankind.. I would suggest a book for you to read I have it and it's a short book one that can be finished less then a week. It's called "Don't sweat the small stuff!" Check it out.. You two are making a mountain out of a moll hill..