I'm going to try to say what I feel I need to say and stay out of trouble at the same time.
I watched the videos and that's exactly what I was afraid of, ILove. One could fairly easily read it between the lines of your posts.
And FWIW, you didn't help your case, not as far as I'm concerned. Notice Stanly gave no biblical reason for the tithe, just faith that it will do us some good if we give it.
I used to like Charles Stanley up until a year or so ago, but won't go into that. Anyway, it's easy to tell others their tithe will be returned if they have faith when you are the one running a TV business and taking that tithe and it's your bank account that's getting fat. As I see it, his return is not due to faith in God, but faith in the best advertising media on the planet...TV.
I wouldn't blame you if you did, but all I say to you is out of concern so, please don't think too badly of me, ILove.