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March 10, 2016 Matthew 19:10-12 What's a Eunuch?
Matthew 19:9 And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery."
19:10 The disciples said to him, "If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry."
19:11 But he said to them, "Not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given.
19:12 For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who is able to receive this receive it."
Thank you for your question Hospes. You gave me an Old Testament example. Lets consider what marriage was like back then. The husband was the master of the home. What he said was law, so to speak. Jesus, when referring to marriage & divorce in Matthew 19, He said "for the hardness of heart" An example was when Abraham told Sarah to tell the folk she was his sister, Sarah had to do it even though she probably knew it was wrong.
Now, I'm going to point out perhaps the greatest rule for theology in the whole of Scripture. It is this....Matthew 22:35 "And one of them, a lawyer, asked him a question to test him.
22:36 "Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?"
22:37 And he said to him, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.
22:38 This is the great and first commandment.
22:39 And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
22:40 On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets."
Whenever a decision is to be made in the Christian home especially, and in life in general, Love is the guide. Just today, Brother Jim Parker reminded me of the importance of LOVE. Personally, I believe that we are just like the Church of Ephesus in Revelation, we have lost our first loving....Rev 2:4 Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love. (KJV).... Rev 2:4 "But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first." (ESV)
Ok, lets look at what these Scriptures are teaching. In Matthew 22:37, Jesus says that the greatest Commandment that comes out from Almighty God to all people is to love Him as well as all others. Look at what He says. "On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets." (ESV) or, Matthew 22:40 "On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets." (KJV)
All theology and doctrines of any church or any Christian, must consider the outcome of any decision or practice is it love motivated, not Law motivated or Prophet motivated. Nothing is to be done outside of the mandate of LOVE.
Now, lets look at a scriptural marriage. I'm talking about men because the man is responsible before God for the success or failure of any marriage.
1Peter 3:7 " Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered."
The husband is to honor his wife's feelings in any decision that effects their marriage. Gone is the Old Testament commands for the wife to obey her husband with no input. The husband is to love his wife, not push her around like a slave.
With no real knowledge of the circumstances of Jane and her husband's moving to Rome, we really can't use this example very far. Scripture is Scripture, Love is the prerequisite for any family decision.
Matthew 19:9 And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery."
19:10 The disciples said to him, "If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry."
19:11 But he said to them, "Not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given.
19:12 For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who is able to receive this receive it."
Not seeing that in scripture. How do you see a wife with such an attitude fitting with
Seems to me this passage is telling a wife to trust in her Lord if she desires security.For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. And you are her children, if you do good and do not fear anything that is frightening. (1 Peter 3:5-6 ESV)
Thank you for your question Hospes. You gave me an Old Testament example. Lets consider what marriage was like back then. The husband was the master of the home. What he said was law, so to speak. Jesus, when referring to marriage & divorce in Matthew 19, He said "for the hardness of heart" An example was when Abraham told Sarah to tell the folk she was his sister, Sarah had to do it even though she probably knew it was wrong.
Now, I'm going to point out perhaps the greatest rule for theology in the whole of Scripture. It is this....Matthew 22:35 "And one of them, a lawyer, asked him a question to test him.
22:36 "Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?"
22:37 And he said to him, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.
22:38 This is the great and first commandment.
22:39 And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
22:40 On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets."
Whenever a decision is to be made in the Christian home especially, and in life in general, Love is the guide. Just today, Brother Jim Parker reminded me of the importance of LOVE. Personally, I believe that we are just like the Church of Ephesus in Revelation, we have lost our first loving....Rev 2:4 Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love. (KJV).... Rev 2:4 "But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first." (ESV)
Ok, lets look at what these Scriptures are teaching. In Matthew 22:37, Jesus says that the greatest Commandment that comes out from Almighty God to all people is to love Him as well as all others. Look at what He says. "On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets." (ESV) or, Matthew 22:40 "On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets." (KJV)
All theology and doctrines of any church or any Christian, must consider the outcome of any decision or practice is it love motivated, not Law motivated or Prophet motivated. Nothing is to be done outside of the mandate of LOVE.
Now, lets look at a scriptural marriage. I'm talking about men because the man is responsible before God for the success or failure of any marriage.
1Peter 3:7 " Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered."
The husband is to honor his wife's feelings in any decision that effects their marriage. Gone is the Old Testament commands for the wife to obey her husband with no input. The husband is to love his wife, not push her around like a slave.
With no real knowledge of the circumstances of Jane and her husband's moving to Rome, we really can't use this example very far. Scripture is Scripture, Love is the prerequisite for any family decision.