It's a matter of patriarchal tradition in the orthodoxy.
It isn't that God said he'd never call a woman to preach. It is the idea that men intentionally misinterpret the scriptures in order to claim God said women were not to be called to preach.
One woman serving a church from the pulpit shuts down the argument God does not call women to preach.
Men that insist on that error of their ways though in claiming a woman isn't called are creating a god in their image. The Bible tells us, God's thoughts are not our thoughts. Our thoughts are not God's. Men that think God believes women unable to preach because they're women are short sighted and ignorant of God's supremacy and creative power.
God made both men and women in his image and likeness.
Paul saying women should remain quiet in church had not a thing to do with women pastoring. Rather it was a directive to the churches of the time. When the congregations were segregated, men seated separate from their wives so there were no distractions during the sermon.
Women were to wait till after the service to inquire of something they may not have understood. Rather than call out to have it explained then and there.
If women were to remain quiet in the church women would not sing in choirs. Nor pastor Sunday school. But the chauvinist male will claim that woman pastoring Sunday school isn't pastoring! No, she's teaching. A distinction without a difference.
I agree. Times have changed. Things were different back then.