SputnikBoy
Yes, I DO have problems with God with or without any help from Christians with whom I may disagree. BUT ---whereas I do acknowledge having problems with God in many areas, I also acknowledge my own ineptness in regard to fathoming out the mind of God.
Well the key to the problem is we do not see things from our Father’s point of view. Many a times if we don’t see His point of view and read the OT it might seem like God is a heartless dictator which is absolutely contrary to what we learn in the NT.
In the NT we have a better knowledge of satan and his evil plans. We are also equipped and strengthened to go against him by the power of the holy spirit. We war not against flesh and blood but against the lords of the world of darkness. (But many a times most of us Christians fail to see and get caught up in the war of flesh). Now in the OT not everyone had the holy spirit given to them. Now try telling them that they had to fight against a powerful spirit being satan who they cannot see or perceive in their flesh who is so evil that he holds the keys to death in his hands which takes life away that God gives to us. “oh by the way guys you don’t have the holy spirit so you cant fight against satan but you can try to fight him in the fleshâ€Â. That would really rain their parade. So God had to take the rap for the evil that was going around in the OT. In the NT we are well aware who is responsible for the evil. But in the OT they knew God and all things came from God, so they also ascribed all the evil to God Himself. Job is a good example of this. So God had to wait till the NT covenant to open our eyes to this very sinister satan and his ways after Jesus had defeated him and equipped us with the holy spirit to withstand him.
Many Christians even after the OT still stick to this “bully God†concept like you said. But from Gods point of view it was better for the OT people not to know about satan that much without being given the holy spirit. So they portrayed God as they saw Him revealed. But only Jesus paints the exact picture of what God is really like. So if you want to get a picture of God we have to seek what Jesus said about Him and not all of what the OT has to say about Him. I am not saying OT is useless but to get the right picture you have to look at the NT.
Hey, God ordered the destruction of every man, woman and child, He destroyed the world, He destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah, He turned Lot's wife into a pillar of salt merely for looking back, He 'zapped' someone for merely trying to save the Ark of the Covenant from toppling over, etc. etc. Love, worship and obey me only ...or else!
Not every time Israel went to war did they kill every man woman and child. To my knowledge there were only specific battles when this was ordered. To understand this we need to understand that the battle was not just against humans. These nations are what I call the remnants of the nephelim the mixed breed of fallen angels and humans which still remained after the flood of noah. They were not just humans but genetically screwed up evil half breeds of fallen angels and humans Genesis 6:4. If they were not taken care of then they would have been a problem in the future that’s all. There was no “if we show them mercy they will turn and change their waysâ€Â. Just like satan they were evil and nothing could change that ..yup not even the love of God.
About someone being zapped for trying to save the ark of covenant. Would you call “God smote someone because they jumped off of a cliff and they died?†The death is the cause of the jumping off of a cliff. Everyone in the OT knew what being in the presence of God meant. They had to tie a rope to the priests leg when he entered the tabernacle just so if he didn’t survive they could drag him out of Gods presence. So touching the ark of covenant was like jumping off a cliff. Not that God killed them but death just came as a result of it. This might not be the brightest explanation of it, but hope you see my point.
Their were many other battles where God ordered the captive children to be taken care of and the virgins to be taken as wives. It wasn’t one battle plans fits all. He dealt with every battle in a different way.
The following would help you understand these scenarios.
Genesis 6:4
The Nephilim were on the earth in those days– and also afterward– when the sons of God went to the daughters of men and had children by them. They were the heroes of old, men of renown.
2 Peter 2:4
For if God did not spare angels when they sinned, but sent them to tatarus, putting them into gloomy dungeons to be held for judgment;
1 Peter 3:18-20
(18) For Christ died for sins once for all, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive by the Spirit,
(19) through whom also he went and kerussoed to the spirits in prison
(20) who disobeyed long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah while the ark was being built
You have to understand tatarus and and kerussoed to understand the above scriptures.
Tartarus was like a prison what we would call hell but here were some of the fallen angels kept “captive in prison†Why were they put in prison? ..Gen 6:4 because they wanted to get into the blood line of humans which would make the coming of Jesus in the future impossible. Most translations read that 1 Peter 3:19 that Jesus preached to these spirits in prison. But He actually kerussoed ..meaning declaring “something really importantâ€Â. Like if you watch movies and the king is going to make a special appearance then the trumpets blast off and everyone gets quite. That’s what happened. Jesus went and declared the victory of important event that took place ..He declared the defeat of these spirits(fallen angels who were trying to breed with humans and hence were put in prison./tartarus) the victory of Gospel. Now when you understand the plans of these fallen angels you will realize why God had to be so harsh and straight to the point in the OT because the old covenant people did not have the holy spirit to understand these things. He went with straight instructions like “go destroy, leave nothing aliveâ€Â.
God reveals Himself through Jesus Christ to us. Don’t get stuck on OT to understand Him. He had to do things the OT way because He was dealing with satan who was very worse. Yeah satan was worse in the OT than the NT. It said before the flood “every other thought of man was wicked†, not just random thoughts and not just a few men. To me satan is not half as bad now as he was in the days of noah. Remember when Jesus said the end shall be “like the days of naoh�? Meaning satan is going to be bad like the way he used to be bad in the OT. If you think we have it bad ..wait till the “history of the days of noah†repeats itself.
Hopefully I haven’t jumped on too many issues at once and hopefully might have given you a place where you can start understanding the God of NT and also reconcile with the God of OT.
God bless.