Soma-Sight said:Here is some good verses to justify from the OT.
Rape of Female Captives (Deuteronomy 21:10-14 NAB)
"When you go out to war against your enemies and the LORD, your God, delivers them into your hand, so that you take captives, if you see a comely woman among the captives and become so enamored of her that you wish to have her as wife, you may take her home to your house. But before she may live there, she must shave her head and pare her nails and lay aside her captive's garb. After she has mourned her father and mother for a full month, you may have relations with her, and you shall be her husband and she shall be your wife. However, if later on you lose your liking for her, you shall give her her freedom, if she wishes it; but you shall not sell her or enslave her, since she was married to you under compulsion."
Now let's see what the actual, nonrevised Bible says:
Deutronomy 21:10-14:
When thou goest forth to war against thine enemies, and the LORD thy God hath delivered them into thine hands, and thou hast taken them captive, And seest among the captives a beautiful women, and hast a desire unto her, that thou wouldest have her to thy wife; Then thou shalt bring her home to thine house; and she shall shave her haead, and pare her nails; And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife. And it shall be, if thou have no delight in her, then thou shalt let her go whither she will; but thou shall not sell her at all for money, thou shalt not make merchandise of her, because thou hast humbled her.
[quote:06c98]Sex Slaves (Exodus 21:7-11 NLT)
When a man sells his daughter as a slave, she will not be freed at the end of six years as the men are. If she does not please the man who bought her, he may allow her to be bought back again. But he is not allowed to sell her to foreigners, since he is the one who broke the contract with her. And if the slave girl's owner arranges for her to marry his son, he may no longer treat her as a slave girl, but he must treat her as his daughter. If he himself marries her and then takes another wife, he may not reduce her food or clothing or fail to sleep with her as his wife. If he fails in any of these three ways, she may leave as a free woman without making any payment. (Exodus 21:7-11 NLT)
First of all, the Bible uses the word "betrothed" or married or engaged to. It says, if the woman doesn't please him, not sexually, but as a wife, then should he redeem her.
You've misunderstood the context of this. This is talking about if a servant sells his daughter. Please read the whole thing before jumping to conclusions from out of context verses.
Murderer of Innocent
1st Samuel 15: 2,3 RSV
2 Thus says the LORD of hosts, 'I will punish what Amalek did to Israel in opposing them on the way, when they came up out of Egypt.
3 Now go and smite Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have; do not spare them, but kill both man and woman, infant and suckling, ox and sheep, camel and ass.'"
If you would have read on...1 Samuel 15:17-19, you would find out that Samuel was testing Solomon, and 1 Samuel 15:18 says: And the LORD sent thee on a journey, and said, Go and utterly destroy the sinners the Amalekites, and fight against them until they be consumed.
[/quote:06c98]Smashing the Heads of Infants Onto Rocks
Psalm 137: 7-9 RSV
7 Remember, O LORD, against the Edomites the day of Jerusalem, how they said, "Raze it, raze it! Down to its foundations!"
8 O daughter of Babylon, you devastator! Happy shall he be who requites you with what you have done to us!
9 Happy shall he be who takes your little ones and dashes them against the rock!
Again, you are misquoting: Here they are all sad and they asked to be sung a song. He's talking about the LORD, by saying 'Remember, O LORD,' He's being sarcastic in a sad way by referring to 'Happy shall he be.' Notice he's not even talking about the LORD. What he really means is whoever did that is screwed.
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Maybe instead of looking for sorry excuses for a 'vengeful' God in the OT, you should maybe focus on actual mercies He Himself did to people, especially sparing them from destruction.