Further discussion of women serving the early assemblies (there were not church buildings in those days):
The names of several prominent women are included in Paul’s salutations in Rom 16:1-15: Phoebe, Priscilla (also mentioned in Acts 18:2, 18:26; 1 Cor 16:19), Mary, Junia, Tryphena, Tryphosa, Persis, the mother of Rufus (and claimed by Paul as his own mother), Julia, and the sister of Nereus, along with Timothy’s 4 daughters. (This is not to be taken as an exhaustive list.)
Romans 16: 1-16 (NASB)
1 I commend to you our sister Phoebe, who is a (servant) of the church which is at Cenchrea;
2 that you receive her in the Lord in a manner worthy of the saints, and that you help her in whatever matter she may have need of you; for she herself has also been a helper of many, and of myself as well.
3 Greet Priscilla and Aquila, my fellow workers in Christ Jesus, 4 who for my life risked their own necks, to whom not only do I give thanks, but also all the churches of the Gentiles;
5 also greet the church that is in their house. Greet Epaenetus, my beloved, who is the first convert to Christ from Asia. 6 Greet Mary, who has worked hard for you.
7 Greet Andronicus and Junias, my kinsmen and my fellow prisoners, who are outstanding among the apostles, who also were in Christ before me.
8 Greet Ampliatus, my beloved in the Lord.
9 Greet Urbanus, our fellow worker in Christ, and Stachys my beloved. 10 Greet Apelles, the approved in Christ. Greet those who are of the household of Aristobulus. 11 Greet Herodion, my kinsman. Greet those of the household of Narcissus, who are in the Lord.
12 Greet Tryphaena and Tryphosa, workers in the Lord. Greet Persis the beloved, who has worked hard in the Lord.
13 Greet Rufus, a choice man in the Lord, also his mother and mine. 14 Greet Asyncritus, Phlegon, Hermes, Patrobas, Hermas and the brethren with them.
15 Greet Philologus and Julia, Nereus and his sister, and Olympas, and all the saints who are with them. 16 Greet one another with a holy kiss. All the churches of Christ greet you."
(See also: Rom 16:21; 2 Cor 9:23; Philippians 2:25, 4:3; Colossians 4:11; 1 Thessalonians 3:2; Philemon 1:1-2, 24.)
Phoebe, rather interesting, is given the description of “diakonon†of the Church in Cenchrea. This form of the word is used only 2 other times, in Romans 15:8 and 1 Thessalonians 3:2.
“Diakonon†is of masculine gender in Greek but is used to describe Phoebe. The feminine form ‘diakonissa’ did not exist in the ancient world until 325 AD, and females who served as ‘deacons’ (diaknonoi) in the ancient world were called ‘deacons’ rather than ‘deaconnesses.’ Phoebe was more than just a sister (Philemon 2), but a diakonon.
Scripture records that women were included in the leadership ministry of the NT churches. However, one must look at the words used to describe their involvement: important words such as fellow labourers/workers, fellow prisoners, fellow soldiers, helper, labourer. And who described them with those words? Paul.
Paul also wrote in Romans 12: 1-
1 Therefore I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship.
2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.
3 For through the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think more highly of himself than he ought to think; but to think so as to have sound judgment, as God has allotted to each a measure of faith.
4 For just as we have many members in one body and all the members do not have the same function, 5 so we, who are many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another.
6 Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, each of us is to exercise them accordingly: if prophecy, according to the proportion of his faith; 7 if service, in his serving; or he who teaches, in his teaching;
8 or he who exhorts, in his exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness.
Could ‘silence’ for women have been the standard for “all the churches� Were/are women allowed a very slim & limited participation in their assemblies?
Absolutely not…and this is all according to Scripture.
- AD