I know this is complicated sister, but we have to get this, it's very important. Check this out and ponder it.
Romans 8:5-8
5 For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.
6 For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
8 So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God./
The carnal mind is enmity against God. It does not want to walk with God or to obey Him. It will lie to you and rationalize everything to you so that you will not obey or understand or to let loose of the worldly things. It will tell you that oh it's too confusing and so don't worry about it and simply cling to Jesus. Which is sort of a deception. To even take your mind (heart) off of God is to set yourself against Him. Does that make sense to you?
I watched a video by an excellent Pastor who spoke on this very thing. I'll see if I can find it so that you can watch it, he explains it better than I can, lol.
it's not really complicated edward. it is as Yhvh designed all , simple. and true.
but, man's way of thinking messes everything up - complicates things always in a bad way.
only when turned back to Yhvh in Yeshua by grace is everything simple again. simple and true.
all the preaching by all the pasters and teachers has just complicated things all the more, ever since the Bible was first written(the N.T.). (there's absolutely some multitudes who will never ever come over to Yhvh's Kingdom because they trust and believe man instead of trusting and believing Yhvh).