Here's some of my thoughts on this topic. Hopefully they are Biblically based (but open to criticism). Let's unpack the following instructions ("oughts"). And yes there are multiple instructions (sorry for the lengthy reply):
1 Peter 3:14-16 (NASB) But even if you should suffer for the sake of righteousness, you are blessed. And do not fear their intimidation, and do not be troubled, but sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence; and keep a good conscience so that in the thing in which you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ will be put to shame.
First, notice where this passage comes from (the broader context). It's some of Peter's instructions ("oughts") on how we who have hope in God (men and women, husbands and wives) should live our Earthly lives while we wait on our afterlife. From the NASB title of this chapter "Godly living": Peter details some things wives should incorporate into their particular "Godly living" (v1-6) and some things husbands should incorporate into their Godly living (v7). [Yes wives have more to do to live Godly lives than husbands. They have 6 verses and we get only 1. I guess husbands can't handle more than one instruction whereas wives can handle six (or more) at a time
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But then Peter returns to giving everyone (wives and husbands) instructions in v14-16. Apologetics is for everyone who has hope in God, is my point. People who have no hope in God or hope in themselves not God should probably stay away from apologetics. But for the rest of us (women too), it is an ought to our lives, not an optional add on.
1. "You are blessed". A blessing is something that comes TO us who hope in God in this effort of Godly living. We have
inherited a blessing (v9) though to Help us (The Helper, the Holy Spirit). Thus, let it (that Blessing) flow through us brothers and sisters to others.
2. Do
not fear their intimidation, and do not be troubled. If you've spent much time studying Christian apologists, I'm sure you've heard one or more point out that 1 Peter 3:15 comes in the same sentence as 3:16. They are making the point not to be rude with our apologetics. Which is a true and a valid point, of course. But I've never heard anyone, that I recall, noticing that a portion of verse 14 is also a part of this very long sentence of Peter's. My point is that Peter's instructions include us
not fearing intimidation or being troubled in this Godly living effort of apologetics from whoever asks (Atheist or Christian). The way to do that (not fear or be troubled), you ask??? APOPLOGETICS! IF we are prepared with good reasoned answers to the inevitable intimidation and questions, no problem. We'll put them (those that have no hope in God or put hope in themselves) to
shame (Peter's word not mine) simply by having prepared reasons, not by rudeness. But more than that, we get to live without fear.
3.
sanctify Christ as Lord?
Careful! We are NOT sanctifying Christ through our apologetics. He needs no sanctification. We do! Let's not snip a phrase out of it's context. Who does good apologetics (apologetics done right) sanctify??? Us! How do I know? Because what he really says is "...
sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts ...
Also, sanctifying our hearts is a process. Don't expect to ever stop learning and/or being corrected with others' good apologetics in this Godly living process. I've learned a lot here! And yes learned from some that disagree with me. There is no pill that once taken means all our answers are the best reasoned answers, however. It takes work and correction.
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always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you. Being ready with a defense (an apologetic) includes lots of study, practice and hard work. 'No pain, no gain' type of thing. It takes practice, but so? It's worth the effort. And it's worth it for
everyone who asks. Not just to Atheists or Hindus or people of other faiths. But to anyone who asks. Including other Christians! Who knows, maybe their defense is more Biblically reasonable than ours. [which is why I'm here, BTW]. But apologetics toward others is about them first 'asking'. Church member correction/discipline is another subject. And not for everyone to practice either. Apologetics is about answering people's questions, not correcting their doctrines, IMO.
5.
give an account
http://biblehub.com/greek/3056.htm
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3056 (
lógos) is a common term (used 330 times in the NT) with regards to a person sharing a message (discourse, "communication-speech").
3056 (
lógos) is a broad term meaning "
reasoning expressed by
words.]
Give them a reasoning expressed by our Biblically based words.
Hope??? Is it 'wishful thinking' or is it something tangible that's based on the evidence of Jesus Christ's (The Logos) resurrection? I say hope is tangible and evidenced. In fact, Hope lives in us.
6.
the hope that is in you,
The reason for
our hope is in us! It's alive and well in us. It's NOT us, however. Christ IS living in us. Do we hope in Christ for our afterlife or do we hope in us for our afterlife??? I mean really, why DO we hope? Is it because we like going to church and fellowshiping with others and being 'christian' helps us socially??? Or do we have a reason literally living in us to base our hope on??? I've never/ever seen an Atheist convinced of God by looking at us. By the conviction of the blessing of the Holy Spirit flowing through us, sure. But us??? Not!
7.
yet with gentleness and reverence;
[any suggestions for me personally here?
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But address what with reverance and keeping a good conscience means!
http://biblehub.com/greek/4240.htm
reverence to who, the questioner or to God? I say show reverence to God. If you back away from challenging questions to your reasons, are you being reverent to the Hope (capital H) living in you?
8.
keep a good conscience
http://biblehub.com/greek/18.htm
Learn what a good conscience means.
9. so that
in the thing in which you are slandered, ...
If our apologetic reasons (the thing) for believing are Biblically based, yet slandered anyway (even by another christian), so be it. Our conscience is clear.