Stick with the facts. How does the Word of God actually address this issue?
I think the way it addresses this issue is we are called to be prepared and we are called to protect that which is ours, be it property, people or children.
Luke 11:21
When a strong man, fully armed, guards his own palace, his goods are safe;
1 Timothy 5:8
But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
Luke 11:21
When a strong man, fully armed, guards his own palace, his goods are safe;
The Bible also allows for police officers and the military by this verse, some people do not even believe we should have police or military.
Romans 13:3 For rulers are not a terror to good conduct, but to bad. Would you have no fear of the one who is in authority? Then do what is good, and you will receive his approval,4 for he is God's servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for he does not bear the sword in vain. For he is the servant of God,an avenger who carries out God's wrath on the wrongdoer.
There is also the issue of people who refuse to listen to God when He has plainly told us to protect that which is ours, which IS right in God's eyes, called righteousness. Not doing what God has called righteous - is self-righteous, people who justify themselves by doing nothing and then using God as their excuse.
Romans 10:3
For not knowing about God's righteousness and seeking to establish their own, they did not subject themselves to the righteousness of God.