Then you say our skin and bones CAN cause us to sin.
The person obeying Him is the one pleasing Him.
Your flesh and bones and the desires that come from them are something that evil spirit use to try and get you to sin!!
Yes, the person who obeys Him pleases Him, and that requires that you listen to Him, but none of us listen to Him like we should!! Jesus did! He did and said only what the Father told Him, but we don't. We are counted as being righteous because we believe in Him (Jesus Christ), who because He does and says only what the Father tells Him, is called "The Word of God"
Because we believe in Him, we will listen to Him! Not perfectly, but our belief enables Him to work with us, something like He does with the angels in heaven that serve Him. Still, only God is good and not you or I.!! And still there are evil spirits who can communicate with you - or why else are we told to test the spirits and why are we told our battle is with the dark forces of this world.
So because we believe in Him, we do listen to Him at times, and He can get through to us when He needs to. And if He does we are willing to do what He (our Lord asks). That doesn't mean you are perfect by your great works, but rather that He counts you as being righteous. He no longer remembers your sins, but He pulls you into a relationship with Him. So you and Him talk. You reason with Him. You learn. You get better and thus improve. You are, if you believe in Him, a work in progress and specifically His work in progress.
Still those evil spirits, the dark forces you battle with, tempt you and that usually with the desires you have in the flesh!!
So then, a person shows up at our Christian church saying they have a sexual desire for other people of the same sex. Can we not understand what they are going through, since we have our desires and our battles with the dark forces of this world? And can we not turn them to, and even want them to talk to, Jesus Christ and get them talking with Him and reasoning with Him? After all, He helps us with our struggles doesn't He?
Yet if we don't have understanding, the type of understanding the comes from His voice, then we start to judge those people we think are not up to "our: standards. Instead of realizing that 'all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God' we judge them, make them feel unwelcome, instead of understood. And so it is that the church is thought to have a bunch of "self-righteous" people. Now the person thinking that might also be thinking it because of the battles they have with evil spirits, but we provided the support for the accusations made against us saints. And that because we deceive ourselves in to thinking that we don't have sin (those evil spirits) working in us. It is in us that we pick up the communication from spirits, because spirits communicate with our spirit and our spirit is found in us.
So if I deceive myself (and evil spirits want that to happen) into thinking that I am now perfect by my actions instead of by my faith, then I don't test the spirits. I don't seek the Lord Jesus Christ for reproof, correction, teachings, and to make myself better. Oh I may want some of those great feelings which I can pick up in my spirit. But if I didn't test the spirits, because I think I can not get something wrong, then where did the great feeling come from. You don't know, because you didn't test the spirits.
You can find that test also in 1 John, because it goes what John was trying to get across in that letter.
1 Jn 4:1-3 Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. By this you know the Spirit of God: every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God; and every spirit that does not confess Jesus is not from God; this is the
spirit of the antichrist, of which you have heard that it is coming, and now it is already in the world.
If anyone does not think they could be wrong, could sin, could get something wrong because they have the Holy Spirit, then they are not testing the spirits!!!! Yet this was written from John to Christians!!
1 Jn 4:4
You are from God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world.
So is was the "beloved", the "little children" who "have overcome" that John was telling to test the spirit, and also those he was writing to in that letter which also had:
1 Jn 1:8 If we say that we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves and the truth is not in us.
John was not actually telling them they did not have the truth so were not the 'little children' but John was pointing out that we have battles with evil spirits. So we needed to be aware of the struggles, battles, and as Paul put it" the principle that evil is present in us.
Indeed, did we not read that even Jesus was taken out into the desert by the Holy Spirit to be tested and tempted by Satan. Satan tempted Him with food, because the flesh want and desires food and He was fasting. Satan tempted Him with positions - all the things He could see with His fleshy eyes. Satan tempted Him and tempted Him, and when that didn't work Satan back off and looked for a more opportune time, like when He was about to be grabbed and put on the cross. It was a temptation to prevent the pain His flesh would experience. That is to say that Satan uses the desire we have because God put us in our fleshy bodies to tempt us.
We know this, right? We talked to the Lord and it was explained to us, right? Well, if not that is ok. He can and will if we turn to Him. He gives us knowledge, wisdom, and understanding from His mouth, and it is not hard to understand that we all personally have desires of the flesh. I like to eat when I am hungry. I like to keep my home at a comfortable temperature. I like holding my wife, and I am happy the Lord gave me a woman to be my wife. It is not the God doesn't understand that He gave us our fleshy bodies, and in so doing He also gave us desires of the flesh. He can and does provide for those desires. But then, Satan uses them to harm us and keep us from seeking the Lord. Does not Satan and those dark forces which serve Him get people to pervert the desires if he can? Satan tempts us, with the desires of the flesh, and perverts them, but that does not mean God did not give us the flesh, the desires, and all that for a good reason.
Again, Paul wrote that he did the things he did not want. Paul found that there was a "thorn in his flesh" which was a messenger of Satan. Paul found the principle that evil was present in him. So Paul and John both understood that battle in them with the dark forces of this world. They did not deceive themselves, and that because Jesus Christ, the truth, talked to them, reproved them, taught them, and gave them wisdom and understanding.
None of the above means we should go about sinning and coming into agreement with those dark evil forces of this world. Don't sin. God does not tell you to sin, but the Lord could have you take a wife and even have children, which of course involves sex. Indeed, if the Lord Jesus Christ tells you anything, it is not a sin, because what God says is right, but test the spirits, resist the devil, and take all thoughts captive to Jesus Christ. Never-the-less, we find out that we often do the very thing we do not want, and that because of the principle that evil is present in us, just like Paul explain, just like John explain, and this is all recorded in the Scriptures!!
So listen to the Lord Jesus Christ, via His Holy Spirit, and do what He tells you! That is not a sin or sinning! And know that He grace and mercy is enough for you even though you find that you have a thorn (a messenger from Satan) in your flesh. Confess your sins and He is faithful to forgive you and cleanse you. That doesn't mean He removes the thorn in your flesh, but that He forgives you and no longer remember your sins. So He counts you as being righteous and perfect in His sight. You are now like a child of His who is learning, and learning from God is a good thing isn't it?
So because of all the above, you who are made perfect by the grace and mercy of God will not have an attitude that you are perfect and have already achieved the goal will you, but you take the attitude that you press on, don't you. That attitude we cause you to be understanding of all other people who also, like you, have their struggles with evil that is present in them also! Is it not enough that they believe in Him and so turn to Him, and want to please Him also? So it is the God put us all in the same boat - sinners in need of our Lord Jesus Christ!!!