Okay but according to this Text, the overseers of the church “
must be” a husband ( es have only one “
wife”, i.e. not zero or two or three wives).
Therefore the overseer must be irreproachable, the husband of one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, skillful in teaching,
1 Timothy 3:2 -
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage?search=1 Timothy 3:2&version=LEB
Just as much as he “
must be”, irreproachable, skilled in teaching, etc. he must be a “husband”.
it’s trustworthy sYing (doctrine/teaching) which didn’t originate with Paul, though he’s teaching it to Timothy:
The saying is trustworthy: if anyone aspires to supervision, he desires a good work.
1 Timothy 3:1 -
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage?search=1 Timothy 3:1&version=LEB
I kind of make this point not so much to disagree with you (one of my former pastors held your view) but to relate it directly back to the OP question. I am aware of the differing interpretations, indeed the fact that the Greek words for “husband” and “wife” could be translated “man” and “woman.
But here’s my point: You and I are both saved, right?