Maybe people are not really understanding what i'm trying to say, or maybe they are and I have something to learn, I think we all should have a submission to God and trust Him for everything. There is nothing without Him. We should also be in submission to authority.
I also know God gave us senses and instincts and when we are able, we protect our loved ones because God gave us a way to do so.
The world is trying to make it so it's not ok for men to protect their families. The man IS the protector, provider and leader of the family, it doesn't mean they are the law and no one else has say. It doesn't mean the wife does whatever the husband tells them too, in many cases I've seen it the other way around .haha
But being submissive, in my book, is to allow someone else to walk all over your loved ones, to abuse them, to not stand up for yourself and loved ones. The world wants to take male and female traits away and make them the same.