Pastor -
I'm not saying this to be combative, I certainly know there are many verses all the way around the Sovereignty v. Free Will issue. So the following is not a rhetorical question, but a real good faith inquiry regarding scripture.
Where in the Bible does God specifically abdicate His Authority or delimit His Sovereignty regarding humanity's (or a specific person's) ultimate fate? When did this provisional transfer of Sovereignty via God's irreversible bequest take place?
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By way of disclosure (and not to divert the thread), I believe that men have free will, but I don't believe that God ultimately abdicates His Sovereignty concerning His creatures ultimate fate.
As an example, your children have free will, yet you remain Sovereign in your household - their free will is limited in that you a) won't allow your toddlers to play with knives, or b) allow your teenagers to do themselves irreparable damage with drugs.
The analogy I use to express this tension between mans "tactical" free will, and God's "strategic" sovereignty is a chess game between you and Bobby Fischer.
There need be no "restrictions" on your ability to move in whatever way you see fit. You have absolute free will to conduct your game in whatever way you see fit. Yet will the World Champion INEVITABLY control the outcome. And this mismatch in skill, intelligence, ability does not BEGIN to describe the mismatch between us and the Most High God.