(emphasis mine)
And that is where the argument gets misrepresented IMO. Even if you do receive the Holy Spirit apart from water baptism, that does not now relieve you of the command to be water baptized.
The beginning of Christianity (as the first few chapters of Acts) does not set a hard and fast manner by which the Spirit comes in those first few years of Christianity. This is not surprising, with any such religious movement - cultic procedure remains a bit ambiguous...
Sometimes, He comes before the actual water baptism, sometimes after. However, in Scriptures, the two are
always associated. The Bible is not concerned with the chronological order in the very beginning - but that water baptism "in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit" is something that was commanded by Christ and the means by which we are buried with Him in His death and resurrection. It is through baptism that one enters into Christ.
One NEVER merely
just receives Christian water baptism without the Spirit in Scriptures. The two are
always associated. There are not a body of Christians who just received the ritual, (what you might say are "pew sitters") and others who CLAIM that they received the Spirit without the ritual (people who refuse to submit to baptism, claiming there is no need).
Clearly, ALL who are Christian water baptized, in Scriptures, have received the Spirit of God, since there is no provision once Christianity settles in for ANYONE to "ensure" that they really received the Spirit through some subjective baptism - nor is there anything in Scriptures that denigrates Christian water baptism, for it is through THIS that we are saved. Go beyond the first few chapters of Acts and see if there are any such statements about Baptism.
It simply means you did not receive the Spirit at your water baptism. Some (very few in my experience) do receive the Spirit at water baptism, some do not.
And here is the problem with this attitude...
A person is only part of the Body - by a "valid" Baptism - if they are "perfect disciples". Sacred Scriptures very rarely makes such claims. I am not familiar with any. Practically EVERY NT epistle PRESUMES that some BAPTIZED Christians are not living up to the standards EXPECTED of their inheritance. Have you read 1 Corinthians? Paul states the community was baptized - and yet, look at all the problems. Do those actions of strife mean "they never were baptized to begin with"? Clearly, the Spirit does not FORCE anyone to be a perfect disciple. Thus, this subjective idea that only the "perfect" actually ever were baptized "for real" cannot stand. Why? Because any future sin would "prove" you never WERE baptized to begin with!
Throughout Scriptures, we have members of the family of God, faltering, falling away, wandering. Does that prove they never were part of the family??? Do Jews who sin prove they really aren't Jews? Does Jesus, when searching for the lost sheep, decide, "oh, they aren't part of my flock, because they got lost"? Jesus came to bring sinners to the Father. As such, your idea that "one is not baptized by water because of how they act in the immediate future" is not Scripturally based. We have countless stories of people who LATER DO return, such as the Prodigal Son. If Jesus taught what you are stating, the Father would state "who are you"? "you aren't my son - I never knew you. By your life of perdition, you prove you weren't baptized in the Spirit"
Are we to claim that ONLY when the Prodigal Son realized his error - only THEN - was he really the son of the Father??? Baptism is indeed entrance into the family of God. We are children of the Father. Even if we don't appreciate it later, our baptism is not nullified.
I just happen to be one that did not. But that certainly didn't mean I could skip my water baptism. It does have value in cementing one's decision, or pledge, to follow Christ in the obediences of faith.
One cannot make such a statement of fact. God can be present within someone and the person could be unaware or hardhearted to that fact for the present time. On the other hand, emotional outbursts do not prove that God's Spirit resides within you...
The proof is obedience of the commandments. Not feelings. Not proclamations. And current disobedience does not prove that the Spirit NEVER came to dwell there - or that a seed for the future is not present.
Regards