John 3:16 the word "love" is a verb and it is followed by an action "He gave."
"Became" Christ? Sounds like Arianism and Docetism.
Since sacrificing a lamb from [before] the foundation (creation) of the world, and since God cannot kill the Son, which is tantamount to something called suicide, a body must have had to be prepared for this sacrifice, and the appearance of the Angel of God (Christological "apparition") would be the Second Person of the Trinity in TIME before His actual birth as the God-man.
At least that's how I reason it.
Not the same love.
But since God's love is a verb (as well as a noun) and He gave we learn this same love through obedience. God never commanded Covenant Israel to love non-Covenant Gentiles nor has God commanded His Covenant Church to love anyone other than Covenant Church (and of course His Covenant Church to love Him), everything God has given the Church through the Holy Spirit (fruits, gifts, knowledge, etc.), are meant to be given to other Covenant believers for their edification and growth. They are not meant to be given to non-Covenant unbelievers (the world) for that would violate His command to not cast our pearls to swine of give that which is holy (God's love) to dogs (non-Covenant world.)
Accessing the gospel and accepting the gospel are not something anyone can do on his or her own. God must make them willing and this He does through intervention of the Holy Spirit in a person's life for without God salvation is impossible to man and Christ says so.
More to the point...those God chose NOT to love.
To repeat (sometimes needed), αγαπη is in fact a noun, but does have a verbal form, αγαπω. You replied that the verbal form in used in Jhn.3:16. Sure, and in 1 Jhn.4:16 it’s a noun form. That’s no rebuttal of my sentence. Did you seek to rebut my corrective? You later agree that “God’s love is a verb (as well as a noun).” Correct.
“Became Christ” is biblically true of God’s son. Beyond creation, in what some call the ontological trinity, God’s son is not ‘anointed’! Anointing is a setting aside for mission, something limited within creation. God’s son is only incarnate—and anointed man—within creation. I would query your understanding of Arianism and of Docetism.
Rv.13:8 might speak of names written before history’s start (see Rv.17:8), rather than the Lamb slaughtered from its start. The LEB/NKJV simply present the idea of the Lamb slain at the start. The NIV/NLT prefer the idea of the Lamb slain at the start, but allow the option. The CEV/NRSV prefer the idea that the Lamb wasn’t slain at the start, but allow the option. The CEB/ERV/NABRE/NCV simply present the idea that the Lamb wasn’t slain at the start. The NCV suggests that even from prehistory, some have refused to worship the Beast in his earlier manifestations. These versions cover the ideas that the Lamb’s death has feedback into God’s transcendence; that it potentially covers everyone from man’s start; that God’s fore-/trans-knowledge of the redeemed, implies his fore-/trans-knowledge of the Beast, as well as their security; that the battle between kingdoms goes back to man’s origins. I do not hold it axiomatic that the lamb was slain before the world’s (universe’s) foundation.
But that aside, of course God did not, could not, kill his son noncarnate. But he did hand over his son incarnate to Rome to kill, and his son (noncarnate) willingly became carnate to be killed, and as incarnate was willing to be killed (Jhn.10:30, where the Greek underlines their oneness of will/aim, not incidentally a oneness of personhood). The incarnation was, I think we agree, “a body…prepared for this sacrifice” (so Heb.10:5).
I’m unsure why you mention the Angel of God/Yahweh. I reserve judgement over whether such was a huiophany (appearance of God the son), and instead of calling Jesus a/the God-man, would call him the permanent temporal mode of the uncreated eternal second person of deity. As to whether he was anointed at conception, or at birth, I leave as moot, but we agree (I think) that the incarnation was a new mode of God the son within the universe.
No, of course not the same type of love. Hence my term ‘analogical’. (Incidentally, αγαπη was not the only Greek term for God’s love.) Yahweh also used husband/wife terms, including selection from alternative peoples: “…Yahweh set his affection on your ancestors and loved them, and he chose you, their descendants, above all the nations—as it is today” (NIV: Dt.10:15 adjusted).
I agree that “we learn this same love through obedience.” Good point.
The Sinai people, unlike the church, were never given evangelism, for it wasn’t needed. Now there is a church in which to meet God as father, it is needed as an invitation. We are commanded to love the people of the world—not the κοσμος as enmity against God (1 Jhn.2:15), but the people enslaved to that enmity (Jhn.3:16). Thus while our do-good focus is to be the church, that should not preclude the wider world (Gal.6:10). When we were evangelistically sinners, God loved us (Rm.5:8). “This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins” (NIV: 1 Jhn.4:10). If he does he not love us before conversion, he could not love us into conversion. Even if my wife were not a Christian, still it would beholden me to love (αγαπω) her: Eph.5:25. Certainly the NT Letters focus on the family of faith (1 Jhn.4:7), but without precluding loving our neighbours both sides of the conversion fence.
On Mt.7:6, D A Carson noted that the two types of animal served together as a picture of what is vicious, unclean, and abominable. In short, that the text functions not to exclude love-based evangelism, “but, as Calvin rightly perceived, only to persons of any race who have given clear evidences of rejecting the gospel with vicious scorn and hardened contempt” (Carson’s Matthew (EBC) 2010:448).
Unlike you, I do not hold that God must make willing (pre-evangelism). That he can illuminate (by the spirit) those willing, yet generally will only do so if they have human evangelism (Rm.10:14), I take as axiomatic. And obviously, the only ultimate-salvation saving hand, is his. I disagree that God chooses not to love certain human beings, if by that you mean that of two morally identical people (I don’t buy into totally total depravity, BTW), God chooses one to ultimately bless, and one to ultimately damn: Dual Election. God our saviour desires all people to be saved (1 Tm.2:4), and whosoever will may come.