...John says that if you know God, you will love people.
That is the very definition of knowing God.
What it is not is the definition of salvation. It is the
sign of salvation. A sign you may, or may not have until later in your relationship with God. That doesn't mean, categorically, that you aren't saved until you have that sign. That's my point.
...a person who is not cultivating the habitual behavior of love, does not know God and is not born again.
The 'does not know God' part is true. What I'm saying is we have made the mistake of saying that, categorically, we are not saved, if the sign of salvation is not there, and that you are not saved until you have the sign of salvation. Simply not true.
God knows when our lack of love is because we are not saved. That's why we are exhorted to make sure that which we say is true (that we are born again) by acting out the salvation we have received. It's so WE can know if we are really born again or not. Not having the sign of salvation doesn't categorically mean you're not saved (it may or may not). What it means is you will know for yourself that you are truly saved if you have the fruit of love in your life.
Other texts in the Bible emphasize the necessity to mature in Christ and that the sanctification process isn't fully complete, but it is a struggle towards the goal.
But John did not say the struggle shows you are saved. He said actually loving in action is what shows you are saved.
Can't you see how you're defeating your own argument and actually supporting mine? Even you acknowledge that not loving, but simply wanting to love is what can happen in a saved person. But out the other side of your mouth you say that saved people love. You can't have it both ways.
Anyone who is saved knows God, it is very clear in Scripture.
No argument here. That's not what I'm challenging.
What I'm challenging is the belief that if you do not actively love it categorically means--your present relationship with God notwithstanding--that you are simply not saved. You say this, but at the same time you acknowledge the growth curve in which we eventually do love sometime after being saved.
By this it is evident who are the children of God, and who are the children of the devil: whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is the one who does not love his brother. 1 John 3:10 (ESV)
So what do we do with the born again person who simply hasn't grown up into this maturity yet? On one hand you quote scriptures like this to say he's not even saved to begin with. But then turn around and say it's simply because his desire has not bloomed into actual fruit yet. Which is why I say it's wrong to categorically equate knowing God (actually loving people in action not just in words) with salvation. In the long run, that is when we will see if our inaction was really the result of no salvation. So for our sakes, God commands us to make our salvation known and sure to ourselves by purposely seeking to manifest the love we say he has placed in us.
If you do not love God, or love the brothers you are not a child of God, and therefore not saved.
We know that we have passed out of death into life, because we love the brothers. Whoever does not love abides in death. 1 John 3:14 (ESV)
Don't go beyond what he's saying. He says love is how we KNOW that we have passed from death to life. That doesn't mean, categorically, that to not love means we are simply not saved. In the long run, on the Day of Judgment, particularly (Matthew 25:45), it does. That's why we are told to 'make sure' we really have passed from death to life by 'doing' love now...so we can KNOW for sure if we have passed from death to life.
If you lack the type of love that John is talking about, or at least are not in the process of cultivating that, i.e. having the desire growing in you to have it.. then according to John you do not have life.
The problem I see with your doctrine is that John says nothing about the process--the getting to know God. You're adding that, but at the same time condemning those in that process as unsaved. Confusing, contradictory doctrine.
I notice that you have no Scripture to back up this anti-biblical argument.
Like many doctrines in the church, they have to be tested against real life. So when a person is born again but has no fruit yet--like in the parable of the growing seed in Mark 4:28 NASB--we have to understand what the Bible is actually getting at in light of life's realities. The reality here is people really do get born again and are only fresh stalks of growth in God's field with no fruit. It is later that they then bear mature fruit. And it is THEN that a person knows they really do belong to God, but that hardly means they did not belong to God as a legitimate planting of God before they bore that mature fruit. That's my point.
One who is saved is born of God and has the Spirit of God, the love that they then will manifest is fruit of their transformation, which will increase as they grow into maturity in Christ.
Jesus' parable speaks of the mature fruit coming later. Are these, then, the true plantings of God before they bear that fruit? I say, 'yes'. You say, 'no'.
In time we will see if a lack of fruitfulness is evidence of not belonging to Christ, and not simply not having grown up into Christ, yet.
This is easy-believeism, which is found no where in Scripture, where a person can have no evidence of having the Spirit yet claim to be saved. Scripture gives a very different picture.
Mark 4 does give that picture. A picture of process and growing up into the mature fruit of 'knowing' God, not starting out in it.
Notice in Scripture, you never see them challenging people to think on how genuinely they believed, but rather to look at the fruit of their life to see if there has been an internal transformation by the Spirit.
I'm not in disagreement with this. The mistake you're making is saying that the fruitless person who hears these words of admonition and then takes them to heart and starts producing the fruit of the kingdom did not belong to God in that fruitless stage. I'm saying, maybe he did, maybe he did not. We can't legalistically categorize all unfruitfulness as being unsaved. The point being, salvation does not categorically equate to 'knowing' God. It is the sign that you know him. But it may take time for the genuinely saved person to produce that sign. We are exhorted to do just that--make the effort to produce the sign--so we can know for ourselves that we are indeed saved and are ready for the Day of Judgment.
Whoever says “I know him” but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him 1 John 2:4 (ESV)
Look at this text, it is refuting the exact lie you are telling.
Don't divide the Word of God unrightly. We know from the full counsel of God that it takes time to grow up into the fruit of the Spirit, the fruit that proves we are saved. That doesn't mean that we were not saved on our way up to that mature growth. John is speaking generally. Your failure is in how you are applying what John said. Ultimately, disobedience is the sign of not being saved,
but it hardly means that all disobedience means you're not saved. As I said in the OP, that means many in this forum are simply not saved.
John is speaking about a people who say, "I know him," but do not keep his commandments (to love God and love the brothers, etc.). How does John describe these people? He says that the person who claims this, but does not keep the commandments is a liar and the truth is not in him.
Make that your signature, and then when you get abused in these theological discussions remind them they are not even saved.
See? The mistake is in your
application of what John said. Disobedience does not categorically mean you are not saved. It may mean that, or it may mean you have simply not grown up yet into an intimate
knowing of the one who saved you. We learn which it is by being careful to 'make our calling and election sure'. Not establish our election, but show it to be sure and
not in doubt.
Those who don't know God are not born of God, period.
The full counsel of God says we can't judge people in the narrow and defined way (signified by your 'period') that you are doing. We grow up into knowing God after we are saved....if we truly belong to him
and continue in the faith we started out with. We don't start out in bearing the intimate fruit of the Spirit, no more than a new bride bears the intimate fruit of her new relationship with her husband on the first night they are married. But that hardly means she did not belong to her husband before that.
Her fruit, her kids, are how we
know beyond a shadow of a doubt that she belongs to him. Because they look like him. Until then we can not be sure if the husband and wife are really being intimate or not. Our fruit shows us that we know God in an intimate and personal way, not just live under his roof.