You have a flood of questions. I'll take them one at a time.
I agree. Am I missing a counterpoint to what I wrote?
No Hospes, you're not missing anything.
Let's just keep this scriptural, if possible.
I am much older.
But like a rebellious two-year-old, I am naturally prone toward pursuing independence/autonomy from a Person infinitely greater than I. By nature, I was one of the "children of wrath." (Ephesians 2:3)
We all were. But we are now called children of God...
Through our faith in Jesus...Faith being the instrument.
Galatians 3:26
I just believe it's important to understand how we come to this faith....Is everyone eligible to be saved by God....or is it just HE that gets to choose? Based on what?
Yes. It's doing what He desires is where His help is absolutely essential. (Romans 8:8)
Agreed. God gives us the grace to help us do His will.
His "will" would be anything good that we do here on earth.
It is rather that He works in me "to will and do HIs good pleasure. (Phillipiams 2:13)
You're replying to this statement of mine:
Or does God have to force HIS will on you?
Your answer.....that God is working in you.....agrees with me.
Are you aware that the reformed believe that God does indeed force you to do His will?
I'm not sure if you just don't follow the reformed faith, or if you don't really know it.
And why do I say this? Because I think you're not smart?
NO!! It's because many go to reformed churches and the pastor purposefully DOES NOT teach the true doctrine for fear of scaring some away. I'm never sure, then, if what you're learning is the truth of the reformed doctrine.
I also believe God is working in me.....
But I DO NOT believe He forces me to do anything beyond my desire.....this is libertarian free will.
When I sin, it is my decision to rebel against my maker and follow my natural desire. I own my sin and if it weren't for being clothed in Jesus' righteousness, I would rightfully deserve God's wrath, i.e. hell.
OK and herein is the problem in a nutshell.....:
You accept responsibility for your sin. You sound like a mainstream Christian and not a reformed Christian.
So my question is this:
Does your church teach determinism? Does it teach that God has predetermined - predestined - everything from beginning to end?
IF THEY HAVE: Then God is definitely responsible for your sin and you should be absolved of fall if God is a just God.
IF THEY HAVE NOT: Then you may not be going to a reformed church.
I think that what some of these reformed churches are doing is sneaky and untruthful and this should not exist in Christianity.
Teachings should be clear.
Personally, in all the Reformed authors I've read, I have never heard anything remotely similar to this taught. I have often heard it from anti-Calvinist explaining it is the logical conclusion of Calvinism. Interestingly enough, for many years I thought the same.
You're responding to this statement of mine:
Calvinism makes all sinning that takes place the responsibility of GOD....and removes all culpability from us.
As I've already stated above.....Calvinism teaches that God predestined or predestinated everything....this being so...then, yes, ALL SINNING BECOME THE RESPONSIBILITY OF GOD, since HE predestined everything.
If you've never heard this in your church, I can understand...imagine saying this to a congregation.
Unfortunately, this is the end result of believing God predestines all. Maybe some personal study should be involved in accepting this faith? Since you say you've never heard it....maybe you don't even believe it?
First, I think when Jesus said we are to be perfect as our heavenly Father is perfect, He was not referring to God being complete in His desires - not even sure what that would mean - but rather Holy to the degree God is Holy. In Christ, we are able to stand before God perfect, clothed in the Holiness of our Lord. (Philippians 3:9) Secondly, given my natural desire toward sin, I shudder to think of the person I'd be if I were complete in my own desires. There is nothing attractive in the thought.
There's misunderstanding here but is a different topic that I won't get into right now.
Never have figured out how I can be joyful and not happy. I've heard it taught the two can be split, but I find the explanations woefully unconvincing.
Joy and happiness are two different feelings.
You may find the explanation unconvincing, but nevertheless it is true.
Does God make you happy or does He bring you joy?
Are you happy all the time because you know God?
How do you feel when you bring home the new car of your choice?
Happy or joyful?
What's the difference?
These are rhetorical question for your consideration.
I do not need a reply...I know the replies, but if you wish to discuss.OK.
I think in the passage "doing good" is defined as what God desires us to do. I think my understanding is more straightforward than yours. I also think God calls me to go "beyond" what I can handle; it makes me that much more needy of Him.
Oh. I see. I thought the bible taught the God does not give us more than we could handle....
And when we go beyond what God wants...do we maybe get burned out?
So if God wants you to do good....
but He predestined everything (calvinist teaching)
then if someone kills someone....how is that doing good?
Your understanding is not more straightforward than mine....
in more ways than one.
Again, can't get into this on this thread....
You can't go getting all upset because I quote Augustine and then quote Augustine!
Let's be fair!
Was I upset? Can't be.....
What I'm upset with are those churches that are not truthful.
Other than that a person is free to believe what they believe....I'd just love to understand better how they could read into verses what is not there.....