MarkT said:No. Sorry. That's not love. That's something I can't even comprehend. How can you force yourself to love God? Love comes from within. It's not a mental decision. It's not something you can flip on like you would turn on a light. No. God pours his love into you. Jesus said the great commandment in the law is, 'You shall love God with all your heart, and with all your soul and with all your mind.' Assuming the love of God is in you, and you know his Son, then you will understand.
Besides that, I've never heard of anyone choosing to love someone. How does that work? First you decide, and then by the power of your will, love comes into your heart?
Maybe I'm misunderstanding you. You probably mean staying with you should be a voluntary decision, and likewise it should be a voluntary decision on your part to stay with your spouse. But in that case, you're not talking about love. You're just talking about your freewill. But what about your commitment?
I would say it's irrelevant whether you have freewill or not. You have zero understanding.
The ones along the path are those you have heard the word of God and don't understand it. So whether you want to love God or not, the devil takes the word away, that they may not believe and be saved. Luke 8:12
Mark, have you ever been married? Love is a daily choice.
I'm sorry to hear that. But I'm not surprised. Actually love is the response to being listened to. It's kind of simple. We love those who listen to us. It's funny. We love those who agree with us. We love those who follow us. We love those who take our counsel. It's a difficult thing to do these days. If you ask people to listen, they call you a tyrant. Wives are disobedient to their husbands. Mothers don't teach their children obedience. The idea of obedience is abhorrent to this generation.
But you're probably saying you stay together because you want to. That's probably true. There's nothing much else that keeps people together. There are no laws against divorce. Love has grown cold.
If you believe that to love God, God must first pour His love into you, and He only does that to some and not to all, and that the only possible reaction to all this is for the person to love God back, then that is exactly the kind of robot love Godfirst was writing about.
Well then that's exactly what I'm proposing.
God loves those who listen to him, and it's his love that we manifest to the world. John says, 'his love is perfected in us' John 4:12, not, our love is perfected in us. Are you saying we are robots because we serve God? That wouldn't be true. We are sinners. You can't tempt a robot. However, we speak the truth. We worship God in Spirit and truth.