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Going to college this October, Help

The only problem with that suggestion, Jason, is that if you join the army or reserves right now you'll probably get deployed before you can go to school :lol

not with the draw down from iraq.

its only the national Guard that does what i am talking about pay for school entirely. the army and reserves has the gi bill only.
 
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Carol, I got some friends in the military. Some of them signed up for contracts that let them go to school first and then they had to be in the army for X years.

If you call me Carol again, I will not be responsible for my actions :rollingpin
 
I almost went to Regent this year, but then decided it would be better (financially) with I got gen. ed out of the way. I'm happy that I didn't because the more I wait the more I think I ought to go to a school in Mass that is exclusively for people who will be going into seminary.

Liberty has an academy for middle and high school (and maybe elementary?) students. My sister attends the online version (so basically she is homeschooled). I think she plans on going there since she automatically gets a year free and a bunch of credits.

Carol, I got some friends in the military. Some of them signed up for contracts that let them go to school first and then they had to be in the army for X years.

I'm doing the same thing and will get my gen. ed. out of the way at my local CC.

Have you been called to do Pastoral work? Missionary?
 
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Not sure, actually. I had thought it was pastoral work, but now I do not know. All I know is He has a will for me in His church as a teacher.

What I have been thinking about is taking seminary without the credit. I'd still have all the educational requirements to be ordained in my church and then get a AS in business and go to a technical school.
 
That sounds like a very good path. I also want to go to Seminary, but simply for my own personal fulfillment.
 
Went to engineering school and it was a nightmare but I would not be where I am today without that degree, my ENTIRE resume is built upon that degree. But it was a nightmare, not the classes themeselves but the poor college student lifestyle. Could not find a job out of school so did the national guard for a few years and that was another nightmare that I got out of before my contract was up. Finally found a job and was able to establish a comfortable norm for myself.
 
I just graduated from college with my four-year degree (took me five years to do it), and God blessed me in so many ways at every crucial turn! I even got a wonderfully well-paying job right out of college in this economy! I'm nearly speechless with gratitude and awe. Sure I can say I put in hard work and surely earned my good grades, but were it not for God - where would I be now?

Anyway, theLords, I first went to a community college and graduated with a 2-year degree and then transferred to a 4-year college afterward. Let me tell you that a community college was a breath of fresh air for me. The lack of uniform (and regimented) schedules and no real "after school" group social activities between students took away the clique atmosphere that high school had, and let me make my own schedule (which I really enjoyed!), and I could easily hide or avoid the unpleasant or immature people (:D) and make friends and gain respect from people I did like. In fact I found many mature people there my age and even made friends with students twice my age who were returning to school - and I think I made friends with almost every professor I had for 2 years (aside: showing the professor that you care goes a long way). My mom just started back to school after 25 years and she is actually enjoying it. She enjoys the student interaction and the intellectual stimulation and challenges to use your brain (mostly in her psycology classes).

As for my personal experience, I had a hard time getting any real respect (and consequently friends) in high school until my senior year, but I found all the social stress etc. went away when I went to my community college and I had the time of my life those first two years! I have not enjoyed a graduation so much as I did my graduation from my community college, not even my recent graduation from my four-year college, mostly because it was small enough for me to make many friends and I got plugged in with various groups like Campus Ministries, Scholar's Bowl, and Phi Theta Kappa. It also helped me, personally, that I lived on-campus (convenient and a beautiful location) and had great Christian roommates each semester!

Anyway, I can only hope you enjoy going to your community college as much I enjoyed mine! I've found that a lot of what you experience in college is what you bring to the table on your own terms. Yes, you have to deal with the flow of the classes and the mandatory assignments, and deal with the occasionally tough professor, but a lot of the responsibility is assumed to be in your capable hands and you are treated like an adult. That's what I enjoyed the most, because I made the most of it. And I also came closer to God over my two year journey there and found many Christian friends, and it turned out to be a wonderful time of my life. May God be glorified!

God Bless,

Josh
 
theLords,

I can also relate to wanting to go to seminary. I wanted to go for a Masters in Divinity at Beeson Divinity School at Samford University in Birmingham, AL after I graduated (which I just did in August), but God openned a door in another city for me to work in my field (Computer Science) and I took it in an instant because it payed well and I've been looking all summer for a job (and I started August 23 - so I've been there for just over a month now). I am an avid Bible studier and "amateur scholar" by hobby (in the original languages, archaeology, theology, and church history, among other things).

I'm not sure why my life took this turn when my heart is so set on going to semininary/divinity school but I've tried to express some of my passion for having an area of ministry, in keeping with my interests, by making a website (you can see it here) and I feel that one day I will probably (God willing) use some of my writing skills to maybe write Christian books (and have been attempting to write a book for some time now and only have 35 pages to show for it so far :)). One of the New Testament Greek professors at Beeson Divinity School was nice enough at the beginning of last summer to let me just sit in his class and learn (not for credit, because it is a graduate school only and I was just an undergrad) because he said that if I wanted to learn Greek that much he would be glad for me to just sit in and listen! I loved it. I could only stay for the first few weeks before my other classes at my university got too demanding, but I sure learned alot in the short time I spent there!

Anyway, follow your dreams and pray for God's guidance. He will give you direction and bless you at every critical junction, and even in the small things, if you seek Him. Sometimes it is in an unexpected direction, but it is always a blessed path. He watches out for his own.

God Bless,

Josh
 
Thank you for sharing your experience with me cyberjosh! Reading your reply really blessed my heart. I have 3 more weeks until I start and I no longer feel that same nervousness I felt when I started this thread.

Thanks everyone :thumbsup

Josh, in reference to your 2nd post, I know exactly what you mean. The only reason I was open to going to school in the first place was because I strictly wanted to go to seminary. But God used that desire to open me up to going to school for an academic diploma, go figure! How He is going to bring me full circle so that I can attend seminary, I don't know but I am excited to find out!

He works in mysterious ways... lol
 
Indeed He does. And I'm glad I could provide some encouragement. :)

Be sure to keep us posted once you start school! We'd love to hear how it goes.

God Bless,

~Josh
 
I graduated in 2005 and hated school. Refused to take my SATs because I said "I will NEVER go to college," turns out it's God's will for my life and I've enrolled at my local community college. I have been out of school for 5 years and needless to say I am nervous.

I'm nervous about the school work, and about the student body. From my visits to the campus I've run into many immature, loud kind of guys and I'm not looking forward to the "hey, baby"s that are going to come my way. I've been in the working world with adults for the past 5 years, I've grown unaccustomed to teenage shenanigans.

What was your freshman year of college like? What can I expect both socially and academically?

Lol. It's like I'm reading about myself.

I did the exact same thing, thelords.

I said I would never go to college; I refused to take the SAT; and I took about 4 or 5 years to come around.

Its perfectly normal to be nervous about ruturning, so I'll try to hit on all of your points.

1. school work: For me, college is actually much much easier than high school. I am not exaggerating at all. I have yet to receive a C for any class-- and I have taken all of my "weak" subjects already to get them out of the way. (I suggest you also do this. It lifts the burden.) The workload in and of itself is generally very light compared to high school. Basically you'll have about 4 tests per course plus a final exam. Some courses don't really have home work. The ones that do generally utilize online applications in which tutor if you get something wrong and allow for 3 or more attempts to correct it. Its an easy spike to your final grade. A lot of courses are writing heavy though. But it is nothing too terrible. In my opinion it is much easier than high school, but then again I really didn't try in high school.

As far as student body goes, I'm sure experiences will vary. The vast majority of "kids" I had to cohabitate with either conceal their immaturity, or are starting to shed it. Occasionally you will get the loud complainer attention seeker or whatever, but by in large the teachers rule the class room. They know that if they cut up, they will be removed. This isn't high school. The teachers don't care if you are taken out. In fact, MOST teachers where I am have this lame personal policy where if a student misses over 3 days a semester, that teacher reserves the right to remove the kid from the course --even if they have an A. It is not a problem for me, because I don't skip classes, but I still think that is harsh. If you got any "Hey baby's" visiting the campus, then your experience at your campus trumps mine at mine; but chances are it was an isolated event. Chances are some clown(s) was trying to show out in front of his friends. I bet it won't happen in a class room. Academia take that PC crap to the seventh heaven and love to have it so. If it happens once you are enrolled, just let those kids know you won't put up with it. The faculty will back you. You are not paying good money to be hazed.

Other than that, the college experience varies from high school population in that everything seems much more distant. In high school, everyone knows everyone. IN college not really. In college class rooms you'll most likely find one or two single serving friends. The knowledge of that person terminates after the course ends. I don't think I have ever had any classmate in more than one of my classes except one person -- a friend from high school and that was done intentionally.

Here, do yourself a favor and use this each time you register for new classes:

Rate My Professors - Find and rate your professor, campus and more - RateMyProfessors.com

You should be able to make your own class schedule and that includes choosing the teacher when available. I never register without consulting this site. It is student reviews of different teachers from pretty much every accredited university and McCollege. So far it has never failed me. No sense in complicating your life with a terror for a math teacher when you can have a great one.
 
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Thanks Aushua. Your story really helped me. I'm 2 weeks away now before I will be sitting in my first class: College Skills 101. Thank you for sharing that with me.
 
Also, thank you for that site. Someone else told me about it earlier and I was so happy to discover it. I dropped a class and signed up with another professor after reading the reviews on that site :lol
 
Haha, yeah. Sometimes you can even extract useful knowledge about the course like if the teacher drops the lowest test score and such. YW.
 
Unfortunately, I am also stuck taking a class with a professor who scored very bad on that site. I suppose all I can do is ask for the Lord's favor and help :)
 
I wanted to thank everyone again. I start classes in less than 2 weeks and I no longer feel scared or apprehensive about it. I felt completely lost and don't feel that way anymore.

Thank you! The Lord's blessings on all of you who cared enough to respond!!!
 
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