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Have we gone too far with the judging?

No offense intended, but we've tried to guide you on track here, and you haven't caught the drift. Your first post is as off the mark as your others have been. Your next words are the perfect example

That is not what judging fellow believers is about, and no one has said anything of the sort. That is your misconception of what we are talking about. If you can't understand that, you shouldn't be in the discussion.

No offense intended either, but you don't need to guide me anywhere. All I have seen from you so far is fallacy in regards to judgement. A severely misguided belief in what judgement is at that.

It is not an issue of mine that people don't know the definition, or context of what judgement is. That is merely an issue of a lack of understanding in our language. An understanding that I do have, and that I do know.

All I have seen so far is misguided posts, and Christians who are not humble. Can you even admit your a sinner? Do you even know what true judgement is? If you wan't to play a game of intellect, I can play that game. I won't sit here and be host to an illogical fallacy.
 
How? Biblical standards.

If you go read the actual passage you gave a "part sentence" quote of you will see we are to use the same standard that is to be used against us. That standard is scripture. We are to also bath ourselves in prayer. (knock, ask, seek, ..........and it will be given unto you)

You do understand God is on our side and wants us to be judged and judge one another properly.

How do you know if someone is following biblical standards? By what you see or hear?

I think my point has been clearly made.
 
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How do you know if someone is following biblical standards? By what you see or hear?

I think my point has been clearly made.

With clean hands and a pure heart bathed in prayer with the guidance of the Holy Spirit - God Himself directs his children to confront a sinning brother or sister in love.

<sup>John 7:24</sup><sup> Jesus said, " </sup>Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly.” NIV

Matthew 7 Jesus teaching us how to judge correctly.

Do not judge, or you too will be judged.<sup class="crossreference" value='(B)'></sup> <sup class="versenum">2 </sup>For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.<sup class="crossreference" value='(C)'></sup> (use only biblical standards not man made or personal convictions)

<sup class="versenum">3 </sup>“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? <sup class="versenum">4 </sup>How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? <sup class="versenum">5 </sup>You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye. (I am to humble myself and examine my own life for pride and any other sin then repent of those sins)

<sup class="versenum">6 </sup>“Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces. (I take this to mean the Holy Spirit must be guiding)

<sup class="versenum">7 </sup>“Ask and it will be given to you;<sup class="crossreference" value='(E)'></sup> seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. <sup class="versenum">8 </sup>For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds;<sup class="crossreference" value='(F)'></sup> and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.

<sup class="versenum">9 </sup>“Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? <sup class="versenum">10 </sup>Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? <sup class="versenum">11 </sup>If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts<sup class="crossreference" value='(G)'></sup> to those who ask him! (I understand this to mean God will give me whatever knowledge and discernment or anwers I may need. God desires for me to know what is right)

<sup class="versenum">12 </sup>So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you,<sup class="crossreference" value='(H)'></sup> for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. (This is love in action)<sup class="crossreference" value='(I)'></sup>
 
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With clean hands and a pure heart bathed in prayer with the guidance of the Holy Spirit - God Himself directs his children to confront a sinning brother or sister in love.

That's the word(bold), and the proper context I was looking for.

EDIT- That wasn't a poke either, it was sincere. Can't really hear tone over the internet.
 
That's the word(bold), and the proper context I was looking for.

EDIT- That wasn't a poke either, it was sincere. Can't really hear tone over the internet.

OK so it's the word judge that bothers you. The judgement came before the confrontation.

Not eternal judgement but sound judgement Chrisitans are called to use in this life.

I wonder if we have been playing a word game?
 
OK so it's the word judge that bothers you. The judgement came before the confrontation.

Not eternal judgement but sound judgement Chrisitans are called to use in this life.

I wonder if we have been playing a word game?

I believe so, that is the point I have been trying to drive home.

Judgement deals with the court case, to determine eternal destination of a soul. In other words, I wasn't denying the words of our Lord. I was simply pointing out that he was telling us to confront, not to judge destination.

Confrontation deals with what you posted just above. In our language, we attribute confrontation with judging(or judgement). Judgement is used by a Judge in our judicial system, while proceeding over a case (ie. you are guilty, or not guilty...You will go to jail for x amount of years, or you will walk free). The same parallel is made by God(the Judge), in that we will have one final case to determine where we will go for eternity. I was saying that there is no way that we can Judge, because we cannot determine that destination.

What most people believe is judgement, is actually confrontation. God judges, we confront.

Hopefully we are in a greater understanding now :).
 
Your post is a mess. Can you fit it?

BTW, This comment I made, "God has not given me a spirit of fearfulness, but one of power, love, and sound judgement"." This came from scripture. It's deals with the Holy Spirit and what God's children are given.
Oh Dear, what a mess!

Yes, I will have a go at fixing it but obviously I can't remember my exact words. Apparently Sparrowhawke was not happy with me commenting about you - so I will try to work around that which may make it rather more long-winded.

The issue is not so much one of fact, belief or intent as providing genuine help to your fellow man rather than judging him, preaching to him or saying something which will inevitably, or probably, be received as criticism. Unwelcome preaching is far too prevalent here on this forum, it is frequently used as a thinly veiled method of openly judging and criticizing our fellow man. Unwelcome preaching has no place here, we can all find conflicting quotations for a retort if we wish to and that certainly should emphasize, to even the most dull-witted, the absolute futility of a simplistic reading of The Bible.

It must always be borne in mind that your fellow man may well not be as bright as you are – or conversely he may be operating at a far higher level than most of us will ever understand (Einstein, Hawkings etc). I would not want to cast aspersions on anyone here but 50% of the population have an IQ below 100. They are slow or even incapable of working things out for themselves and they rely on what they are told by their ‘superiors’.

If these ‘superiors’ are preaching ‘hell fire and damnation’ the majority will believe what they are told. It has always been so. If one of those ‘superiors’ reads a passage out of The Bible which clearly damns the practices of any individual or group of individuals they WILL feel judged and criticized by that ‘superior’. Many people simply cannot cope with the shame of that situation and their lives are ruined just because some ‘kindly’ person thought they were doing God’s will. I do not accept that it is God’s will that you ruin people’s lives, I believe it is God’s will to support our fellow man.

A simple example is the tradegy still unfolding in several African countries where the ‘superiors’ have been telling the gullible masses, ‘do not suffer a witch to live’. The result has been multiple murders and torture of a great many children. It is Salem all over again.

Obviously the message is straight from scripture (Exodus 22:18) so one may easily think there is no harm in preaching it, indeed one may think one is doing God’s work. With only a little thought, we will all realise that saying such things to poorly educated individuals with a relaxed attitude to violence is inviting them to commit horrors upon their fellow man out of ignorance and good intentions.

Extend that now to a fairly common situation in one of your local churches. A woman is being shamed from the pulpit for imagined shortcomings (we have read cases here). All with good intentions but her life was just ruined by ‘good intentions’ by the pastor ‘following scripture’. Do you need more examples? A very common one would be children shamed by their parents for a whole range of natural instinctual behaviour (use your imagination). Parents are the biggest single cause of psychological problems right into adulthood yet they act out of ‘good intentions’ (usually) and often because they think they are following the will of God. They have nevertheless just ruined their child’s life by imposing a sense of shame for something natural and God-given.

If one person judges another, and there is some tenuous biblical justification for doing that, they should keep quiet about it. By all means, if there is a suitable opportunity, ask if they know what The Bible says about their behaviour but we must all be ready to recognize that our own interpretation and understanding of The Bible is just that – our own. Some of us consider it to be a great book of wisdom with unique historical records and an insight into the lifestyle and belief of people 1,700 and more years ago whilst others treat it as ‘the inerrant word of God’ and accept every word of it as fact – so much so that they are able to totally ignore the very obvious factual errors. They take allegory and parable as fact and make no distinction between the recorded word of Jesus and the words of someone else even when they conflict with the words of Jesus. Even more mystifying, those people happily ignore passages that don’t suit them and feel totally justified in doing so (charging interest on loans for example). They feel that they should follow all of the instructions set out but then decide that they can ignore great swathes of those instructions by claiming that they don’t apply any more, despite Jesus’ very clear words, I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished. They justify their exclusion of those swathes of law by vague and sophistic reference to a ‘new covenant’ or ‘ceremonial law’.

That long introduction is to illustrate that a simple reading of The Bible will not reveal the inerrant word of God. It may to some but any one of us may very easily be wrong in our understanding. Some of it is so clearly fable that none of us take it literally but other parts do still fool some people into thinking they should be taken literally. That, in part, is the reason that the Christian Church is so fragmented. If only we could agree that none of us can be absolutely sure that we are right, we would be more tolerant of each other’s views and we could have a universal Christian church. All the time we have people adamant that they are right, that automatically means that they consider the others to be wrong – ALL the others. I must point out again that there are 200 major Christian denominations and many thousands of smaller sects. That is clear evidence that there are a huge variety of views. Some of them think they should be killing child ‘witches’ and some think they should be calling their neighbor ‘evil sinners’. Jesus (and Gandhi:yes) told us we should just be loving them – which seems a far better way of helping others than judging and condemning them even if you kid yourself that you are 'just' quoting The Bible. If you think that God has given you the wisdom to judge others – think again. On matters of God's law that is for God and God alone. Judge others at your peril. I'm sure you know what Matthew 7:1 etc says so I won't bother to quote them.

To those who judge me, I say - I care very little if I am judged by you or by any human court; indeed, I do not even judge myself. My conscience is clear, but that does not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges me. Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait till the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of men's hearts. At that time each will receive his praise from God.1 Corinthians 4:3-5(NIV)

I accept that you believe you are right but that is the word - 'believe'. None of us can 'know' to the extent that we can condemn others, we can only guess, assume and 'believe'. I accept that you 'believe' that 'God has given you sound judgment' BUT that really, really does not give you the right to judge others. That you should leave to God.

Gandhi was one of the most Christ-like people to have lived in my life-time yet you dismiss him and judge him. It really is difficult to understand your motives and certainly your logic. Where is your love for Gandhi displayed? Or even your respect for him?

As has been said earlier there are literally thousands of differing beliefs, just about Christianity, all based on careful study and all, in part, different from your beliefs. None of us actually KNOW which are right. None of us, no matter how confident you are that God has given you ‘judgment’. If all of those millions of good Christians believe something different from your beliefs, are they all wrong to your mind? If so, there is a word for that ;)

You seem, to me, to be entirely missing the point of the sermon on the mount. 'Love' was the message. Almost unique at that time in the history of religions. Severely corrupted since then by many religious leaders and forgotten by many individuals - but forgotten at our peril.

love Aardverk

PS - I have kept a copy of the text this time so if anyone deletes it again I will send it privately. Sorry about the length, I did try to avoid that. :sad
 
............All I have seen so far is misguided posts, and Christians who are not humble. Can you even admit your a sinner? Do you even know what true judgement is? If you wan't to play a game of intellect, I can play that game. I won't sit here and be host to an illogical fallacy.

Well said sir :thumbsup Your point is well made. You seem to display good understanding (I dare not say 'judgement' ;)).

I fear that the problem is over-self-confidence (can I patent that word?). Some of us do not seem capable of introspection and understanding the possibility that there may be other valid views. It presumably makes life much simpler if we don't consider alternative views.

Hello and नमस्ते by the way, we have never met before. Sadly I am just about to leave, I have had just about enough of the judgment here. I will let the bigots win:halo. Au revoir.
(Moderators - please look up the word 'bigot' before you delete it. I am using it in it's accurate sense.)
 
Psalms 37:30
"The mouth of the righteous speaketh wisdom, and his tongue talketh of judgment."

Amos 5:14-15
"Seek good, and not evil, that ye may live: and so the LORD, the God of hosts, shall be with you, as ye have spoken. Hate the evil, and love the good, and establish judgment in the gate: it may be that the LORD God of hosts will be gracious unto the remnant of Joseph."

Aardverk, for someone who dismisses much of what scripture says, I understand why you would dismiss our Call to call sin sin. That said, I've never been the "You're on the path to he'll." type with non-believers. Personally, I can't believe that's effective. You may find this hard to believe, because you only know me as I am in this role. We have got to be obedient to Him and call out sin when we see it. Hopefully, we do it with love and genuine concern and not out of pride, but we can't remain silent, thereby convey approval with silence.

We are told that we pick and choose verses to live our lives by. That may be true to some extent unconsciously, but we who hold that the Word is inerrant hold it all in esteem. We consider every word in it. I would call that a very bold claim coming from people who openly discard much of what they read in scripture.
 
Gandhi was one of the most Christ-like people to have lived in my life-time yet you dismiss him and judge him. It really is difficult to understand your motives and certainly your logic. Where is your love for Gandhi displayed? Or even your respect for him?

I don't know Gandhi. I don't worship Ghandhi.

I do know Jesus Christ. This is what he said and it's the truth, Jesus said, <sup></sup>Anyone who believes in Him is not condemned, but anyone who does not believe is already condemned,<sup class="crossreference" value='(AD)'></sup> because he has not believed in the name<sup class="crossreference" value='(AE)'></sup> of the One and Only Son<sup class="crossreference" value='(AF)'></sup> of God.


“This, then, is the judgment:

The light<sup class="crossreference" value='(AG)'></sup> has come into the world,<sup class="crossreference" value='(AH)'></sup> and people loved darkness rather than the light because their deeds were evil.<sup class="versenum"></sup>For everyone who practices wicked things hates<sup class="crossreference" value='(AI)'></sup> the light and avoids it,<sup class="footnote" value='[k]'></sup> so that his deeds<sup class="crossreference" value='(AJ)'></sup> may not be exposed.

<sup class="versenum"></sup>But anyone who lives by<sup class="footnote" value='[l]'></sup> the truth comes to the light, so that his works<sup class="crossreference" value='(AK)'></sup> may be shown to be accomplished by God.”

(HCSB)


John 3:18-21

You may not like that I can teach this truth with great confidence but you are not the One I call Lord, Savior and Master.
 
actually the lack of judgement going on in the church today is what is destroying it, nobody says anything anymore, its become so seeker sensitive its lost its salt and light
 
Is there a difference between judgement and judging? Is there a difference if you're dealing with a person or an act?
 
Is there a difference between judgement and judging? Is there a difference if you're dealing with a person or an act?

being apart of a church was a serious undertaking especially in the book of Acts, when two members were killed by the Holy Spirit, not much fear in the church today, why unmarried people sleeping together have no problem being members of a church, sad thing is the pastor doesn't have a problem with them being members either, they put somthing in the offering plate every week
 
being apart of a church was a serious undertaking especially in the book of Acts, when two members were killed by the Holy Spirit, not much fear in the church today, why unmarried people sleeping together have no problem being members of a church, sad thing is the pastor doesn't have a problem with them being members either, they put somthing in the offering plate every week

If I ran a church, I wouldn't ban them from it, I would welcome them. I'd probably have a chat with them and I certainly wouldn't encourage it but ultimately, would it be any of my business what they do in their private lives?
 
If I ran a church, I wouldn't ban them from it, I would welcome them. I'd probably have a chat with them and I certainly wouldn't encourage it but ultimately, would it be any of my business what they do in their private lives?
Yes is would be your business... It would not be the doctors business nor the butchers but it is the business of the pastor... nor is it the busybody business of the other members

Dad was sent to a small church joe and sally were once married mary and tom were once married...they had swapped years before dad got there, the 4 and kids attended the church. After a while dad figured out what was going on.... He had the chat told them they needed to fix it, make it as right as could be...one couple he married the other went away....
 
. . . . Is there a difference if you're dealing with a person or an act?

I say yes a big difference..... I can say clearly abortion is murder and fight on the political side. At the same time hold the hand of broken girl and console her, offer her the comfort of forgiveness.
 
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