This is exactly the problem! You are choosing what fits your dogma, even though these translators insert in the text their own interpretation.
No, I am making a point with
point-appropriate examples. Why would I make my points with inappropriate examples?
1 John 3:6, as I've explained, is best translated in the way modern translations render the verse. This isn't dogma, but the simple fact of the matter. It's glaring projection on your part, actually, to accuse me (and the many translators shaping modern versions of the Bible) of selfish dogma. You're the one, as far as I can see, who, solely on the basis of
imagined ill-motives, have consigned me and all these skilled translators to the category of dishonest, self-serving dogmatists. This is the very sort of thing dogmatists do.
This sounds like a contradiction, and Christian theologians have been trying to explain it for centuries.
This contradiction can only be explained by understanding Yahweh's purpose. He reflected the spiritual through the physical (Romans 1:19,20). Therefore, spiritual birth (birth from God leading to sinlessness according to John) can be understood through the physical birth of a child. The birth of a child goes through 3 stages (following the pattern of the Tabernacle): fertilization, intrauterine development, and birth into the world. Note that miscarriages can occur during intrauterine development, for example, if the mother abuses alcohol. In spiritual birth, a person hears and receives the Word of Truth (fertilization), grows and is formed in knowledge (intrauterine development), and begins to live spiritually on his own when Yahweh reveals truth or gives him spiritual understanding (spiritual birth). This process is described in the Savior's parable of the sower (Matthew 13:1-23).
From this we see that there are 2 groups of believers. Those who understand - they were born and cannot give up God or go back to their mother's womb (John 3:3,4) and do not sin. Those who are not yet spiritually mature and are in the “spiritual womb” can refuse God and not be born Spiritually (2 Peter 2:20) and continue to sin. Of course, there is also a large group of people who think they believe in the Truth, but have not heard the Truth, but believe in interpretations and traditions.
This is, I'm afraid, a lot of nonsense. Nowhere does Scripture ever liken spiritual birth to the nine-month process that produces a new human being. Conception, gestation and birth are distinctly separate, though inter-related, things and no obstetrician lumps them together as a single thing called "birth." And neither does the Bible. Your imposition, then, of this odd notion of "birth" onto the Parable of the Sower in
Matthew 13 is a classic example of
forcing Scripture to say what you want it to say (i.e. eisegesis).
Jesus explained very plainly what he meant by the Parable of the Sower and none of what he said hinted in the slightest at your "3 stages of spiritual birth" idea.
Matthew 13:18-23
18 "Hear then the parable of the sower.
19 "When anyone hears the word of the kingdom and does not understand it, the evil one comes and snatches away what has been sown in his heart. This is the one on whom seed was sown beside the road.
Where is there any "birth" language in what Christ said here? Instead, Christ described a type of
hearer of the truth of the Gospel. This first type is the one who doesn't understand the Gospel when he's heard it. And so, the devil snatches away what he's heard, leaving the hearer lost in his sin. There's no "fertilization" or "gestation" or "birth" even implied in Christ's words above.
20 "The one on whom seed was sown on the rocky places, this is the man who hears the word and immediately receives it with joy;
21 yet he has no firm root in himself, but is only temporary, and when affliction or persecution arises because of the word, immediately he falls away.
There's no birth imagery in this instance, either. Instead, Christ described the emotional hearer of the Gospel, the hearer who
only has an
emotional response to the truth of the Gospel. The seed of Truth can find no purchase in emotion, no place to root and grow in mere happy feeling, and so cannot sustain the hearer when trouble arises. As a result, the emotional hearer "falls away" from the Truth that had given him such joy initially. And so, he, too, remains lost in his sin, just like the first hearer.
22 "And the one on whom seed was sown among the thorns, this is the man who hears the word, and the worry of the world and the deceitfulness of wealth choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful.
The "seed" of the Truth of the Gospel is heard also by the man who is laboring under the concerns and cares of the world, who desires wealth and all it can gain for him. These "thorns" stifle the truth of the Gospel in this man's life, preventing it from bearing any spiritual fruit in his life. Thus, he, too, is left lost in his sin. I don't see any "3 stages of birth" stuff in Christ's words here...
23 "And the one on whom seed was sown on the good soil, this is the man who hears the word and understands it; who indeed bears fruit and brings forth, some a hundredfold, some sixty, and some thirty."
Finally, Jesus described the man upon whom the "seed" of the truth of the Gospel falls who hears the Gospel and receives it with his mind, not mere emotion, and understands it. He is not bound by worldly concerns and so the Gospel is not "choked" out of his mind and heart. As a result, the truth he's heard shapes his living, bearing much "fruit" in him. This is the only hearer of the Gospel who is saved.
I see nowhere in the parable above any mention of conception, gestation or birth. Such an idea has to be entirely read into what Jesus said. There is nothing
in the text of the parable itself, then, that obliges me to accept your eisegetical manipulation of it.