I didn't acuse you or anybody. "Dogma" is not an offensive word.
That depends upon how you employ the word. Typically, dogma is what a person holds to as incontrovertibly true. Being dogmatic, though, or a dogmatist, often refers to one who is bull-headed in their refusal to adjust their point of view - usually for reasons that have little or nothing to do with facts, good argument and evidence. Anyway, you wrote:
"This is exactly the problem! You are choosing what fits your dogma, even though these translators insert in the text their own interpretation."
"What fits
your dogma" certainly seems to me to imply a certain dogmatism on my part. If this wasn't what you intended, that's fine.
Notice, that it is you who accuses me in having ill-motives. Do you know my motives?
I noted a parallel between your statements and those of dogmatists, and suggested you were projecting onto others an attitude you possessed, but did I write, "You are a dogmatist"? And I didn't merely accuse you of having an ill-motive, I pointed directly at what you wrote where this is evident.
Let us follow Paul's advice: And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth (2 Timothy 2:24,25).
Certainly. I have been all along. Being as described in this verse, though, does not require avoiding calling a spade, a spade. And so, we read in Scripture instances where Paul himself employed frank and direct language. Read his first letter to the Corinthians, for example.
Apparently, you did not watch the video with other examples and explanation.
It wasn't necessary. I can consider the text of
Matthew 13 directly and see very easily that a natural, straightforward reading of it doesn't comport with your "3 stages of spiritual birth" idea.
If you did, you would have found that there is a pattern in the Bible.
There have been many patterns drawn out of Scripture, some legitimate, some not.
Matthew 13:23, as you said, describes the "hearer of the Gospel who is saved" and steps of this salvation. He who is saved is born again.
Being "saved," in the Gospel sense, and being "born-again" are synonymous in Scripture. Both are accomplished in and through the Holy Spirit coming to dwell within a lost person and imparting to them the life of Christ. See
Titus 3:5, Romans 8:9-16, 1 John 4:13,
John 3:5-7. There is no place in the NT that teaches that the Holy Spirit indwells a person gradually, through a process making of them his temple. He is either within a person and so they are saved/born-again, or he is not and they are not. In any case,
Matthew 13:23 doesn't indicate otherwise. Yes, the man heard, understood and lived in the Truth as a natural, necessary
logical progression but his spiritual birth would have been a single, discrete event in time (see:
Acts 2:1-4, 38-41; 10:44-47; Romans 8:9-11), just as is a physical birth.
Therefore, according to the Bible, invisible or spiritual things of Yahweh such as being born again are reflected in visible or physical things that He made, in this case being physically born:
For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse (Romans 1:20).
The Bible draws parallels between physical realities and spiritual ones, Christ's own parables doing this constantly. But these are analogical parallels, not strict, one-for-one parallels where
everything about the nature of the physical has a perfect, spiritual counterpart. Jesus was the "Lamb of God," but he did not bleat like sheep, or grow a wool coat, or eat a lot of grass. Being "born" spiritually involves no labor pains of a woman, or afterbirth, or the cutting of an umbilical cord. God the Father is an immaterial Spirit, though He is said to have "hands," and "arms," and "eyes." We understand that these things are figurative and, as such, only approximate. In light of this, I think it's rather odd how far you're wanting to push the analogy/parallel between physical birth and spiritual.