Not sure who teaches you this stuff, but God assuredly wants us to fellowship with Him and He certainly wants to bless us as our lives are better with God and His Son Christ Jesus and we are laborers of the harvest.
Please show me the scripture where this is what He wants. The verb “wants”applied to the noun “God”needs to be there. And what is required or if nothing at all is required would be nice.
1Corinthians 1:9 God is faithful, by whom ye were called unto the fellowship of his Son Jesus Christ our Lord.
No mention of Him wanting to fellowship with us.
1John 1:3 That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ.
“Fellowship with us” refers to the believers fellowship with the author. In The second part, John is saying that he has fellowship with God as do the recipients of the letter. Now, he does not writes that God wants to fellowship with them, but of course, it can be assumed. Nevertheless it is easier to assume the John wants it. Stating it is is not making that a goal of God as though that’s all he wants.
Whether we are laborers depend upon what we do because “labor” mean WORK. If we do not work(s) as He is working or directing, we are not laboring with him. Logical.
Now as to blessings, yes of course, but that not the primary goal as indicated in the scripture you quote below regarding suffering. A suffering life is pretty far from blessed as we expect it to be. For those unfamiliar with scripture here is what God wants in a nutshell
He has shown you, o man, what is good and what the Lord requires of you, that you justly (by others) and love mercy (towards others) and that you walk humbly with your God (him, the only real one you can walk with.) Micah 6:8 (from memory so no bold colors as it’s not copy/paste. It’s instead lived out.
Mat 9:37 Then saith he unto his disciples, The harvest truly is plenteous, but the labourers are few;
Mat 9:38 Pray ye therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he will send forth labourers into his harvest.
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Rom 8:14 For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.
Ah, a condition, must be led by the Holy Spirit. Isn’t that a “work?”
Rom 8:15 For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father.
Rom 8:16 The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God:
Rom 8:17 And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together.
“Spirit bears witness with our spirit” means one who has the Holy Spirit has that inner witness that one is a child of God. There is no “not sure if you are saved” and no reciting aloud a detached scripture to convince yourself you are. Those who aren’t sure, aren’t saved, according to this scripture. Doesn’t guarantee those who convinced themselves they are, therefore are, but it does clarify our answer to the unsure. You aren’t as you haven’t what John describes.
If the reader listens carefully to the songs and likely sermon in church tomorrow, they will detect that they are being taught that essentially God’s world seems to revolve around you and your happiness. Your pride and self love will be marvelously fed. Maybe your church is different, but this seems to be the common message.
God wants us to walk with Him treating others as Jesus did which, is the only way he will walk with you in any degree on closeness. What fellowship hath light with darkness. (I use KJV so it’s clear I’m quoting the Bible.)