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Homosexuality in Christianity

Free asks : "I'll ask again: Can a homosexual, that is, one who is attracted to the same sex, be a Christian?"

Hi Free

The simple answer is absolutely not !

A Christian is one who has received the Spirit of a sound mind. A homosexual and his mind is void, empty of any sound mind whatsoever !
 
Mysteryman said:
Free asks : "I'll ask again: Can a homosexual, that is, one who is attracted to the same sex, be a Christian?"

Hi Free

The simple answer is absolutely not !

A Christian is one who has received the Spirit of a sound mind. A homosexual and his mind is void, empty of any sound mind whatsoever !
Really? On what basis can you make that claim? How is their mind any different than the man who struggles with lusting after women?
 
Free said:
Do you see what you've just done? You've just done the very thing you said Christians don't do, which is exactly why I asked the question.

Free, it is fact that many homo-agendists actively spread lies about the Bible facts by saying it is ok to engage in homosexuality and homo-marriage is biblical.

This is what most of us are protesting.
 
shad said:
Free said:
Do you see what you've just done? You've just done the very thing you said Christians don't do, which is exactly why I asked the question.

Free, it is fact that many homo-agendists actively spread lies about the Bible facts by saying it is ok to engage in homosexuality and homo-marriage is biblical.

This is what most of us are protesting.
But I have shown that you are in fact protesting more than that.
 
Hi MM<

Thank you for sharing the seriousness of Romans 1:29-34, and by no means am I minimizing the seriousness of homosexuality. All sin is to be taken seriously and by no means should we call sin by any other name than sin.

In the process though, let us keep in mind what Paul writes directly after he explains the seriousness of sin.

Romans 2:11 Therefore you are without excuse, whoever you are, when you judge someone else. For on whatever grounds you judge another, you condemn yourself, because you who judge practice the same things. 2:2 Now we know that God’s judgment is in accordance with truth against those who practice such things. 2:3 And do you think, whoever you are, when you judge those who practice such things and yet do them yourself, that you will escape God’s judgment? 2:4 Or do you have contempt for the wealth of his kindness, forbearance, and patience, and yet do not know that God’s kindness leads you to repentance? 2:5 But because of your stubbornness and your unrepentant heart, you are storing up wrath for yourselves in the day of wrath, when God’s righteous judgment is revealed!

I've often heard, "hate the sin, love the sinner" and I wonder if this idea isn't found in Romans 1 and 2 because I think it's a travesty when one is given over to a reprobate mind.
 
StoveBolts said:
Hi MM<

Thank you for sharing the seriousness of Romans 1:29-34, and by no means am I minimizing the seriousness of homosexuality. All sin is to be taken seriously and by no means should we call sin by any other name than sin.

In the process though, let us keep in mind what Paul writes directly after he explains the seriousness of sin.

Romans 2:11 Therefore you are without excuse, whoever you are, when you judge someone else. For on whatever grounds you judge another, you condemn yourself, because you who judge practice the same things. 2:2 Now we know that God’s judgment is in accordance with truth against those who practice such things. 2:3 And do you think, whoever you are, when you judge those who practice such things and yet do them yourself, that you will escape God’s judgment? 2:4 Or do you have contempt for the wealth of his kindness, forbearance, and patience, and yet do not know that God’s kindness leads you to repentance? 2:5 But because of your stubbornness and your unrepentant heart, you are storing up wrath for yourselves in the day of wrath, when God’s righteous judgment is revealed!

I've often heard, "hate the sin, love the sinner" and I wonder if this idea isn't found in Romans 1 and 2 because I think it's a travesty when one is given over to a reprobate mind.


Hi J.

I think the answer is right in Romans 2:12 - "For as many as have sinned without the law shall also perish without law" << Homosexuals have sinned without the law , and so they perish without law.

The second half of this verse tells us that those who have sinned in the law ( As King David did ) shall be judged by the law. The reason God did not have King David stoned to death was because of his repentent heart that was locked into the law of God. King David knew the law, but repented according to the law. God and his mercy allowed King David to live. But because of what he did, war reigned until the very end of King David's reign as King. Meaning that there was no peace in Israel because of the sin of King David.
 
I believe that one also needs to focus upon what is an "abomination" unto the Lord.

In Lev. 18:22 - "Thou shalt not lie with mankind , as with womankind : it is "abomination"

There are many abominations unto the Lord.

1. lying lips
2. a false balance
3. a froward person = perverse
4. a froward (perverse) heart
5. the wicked
6. divers weights (false weights)
7. the thoughts of the wicked
8. an unjust man
9. incense - Isaiah - 1:13
10 . Deut. 24:4 - Her former husband , which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled - abomination to the Lord.

Something to dwell upon !
 
Hi MM,

In posting Romans 2:12, you've stopped a bit short...
2:23 You who boast in the law dishonor God by transgressing the law!

We can and should call sin sin, for that's what it is. But to condemn the darkness for being dark, let alone those lost in the dark gets us nowhere. It's much better to ask why the light isn't shining as bright as is should. IMHO ;)
 
StoveBolts said:
Hi MM,

In posting Romans 2:12, you've stopped a bit short...
2:23 You who boast in the law dishonor God by transgressing the law!

We can and should call sin sin, for that's what it is. But to condemn the darkness for being dark, let alone those lost in the dark gets us nowhere. It's much better to ask why the light isn't shining as bright as is should. IMHO ;)

Hi J.

Actually I didn't stop a bit short. Romans 2:23 is not talking about those who are without law. It is talking about those who boast in the law. And they dishonor God by transgressing the law.

It is one thing to use the law dishonorably. And it is another to go about without any law whatsoever.

A homosexual goes about without any law. As I reminded you of Romans 2:12 first half of the verse.

Christians have the law put into their hearts. Non christians do not. This is why God tells us that we are the lights of the world. We understand the law of God, or at least we should.

It is not a matter of condeming sin. It is a matter of looking for an opportunity to help someone out of sin. The huge problem is, that homosexuals are void in their minds of any righteous judgement. So that is our responsibility to bring this about. If they decline, then move on unto someone that will listen. Shake off the dust from your feet and move on. One who will humble themselves, is someone you can work with and pray for. Change needs to take place, and I can not emphasis this enough, especially with the mind of a homosexual.

Paul writes , not to have company with a fornicator. Especially with the fornicators of this world - I Corinth. 5:9 & 10.

Then Paul states in verse 13 , that those of the world, God judges. But we are to put away judging one another who are not of this world.

We need to seperate the two - those of the world and those whom we call a brother. But Paul still states, not to judge the brother, but he also says not to have company with a brother that is a fornicator, etc.
 
shad said:
Free said:
But I have shown that you are in fact protesting more than that.


About homosexuality? how?
You first stated: "What I mean is that no Christians condem anyone who are attracted to the same sex. The problem is acting on it. It is sin to practice homosexuality."

To which I replied with: "As I previously stated, many Christians do condemn homosexuals. Would you agree that one can be a homosexual and a Christian?"

And you then responded with: "Christians should repent when they are in sin. There are homosexual agendists who are promoting lies by saying homosexuality sex is not sin and they should be able to marry same sex. It is just outrageous the way they are promoting sin."

I pointed out that you have just condemned the homosexual, which is the very thing you first stated that Christians don't do. Hence why I said you are protesting more than just homosexuality.
 
Free said:
You first stated: "What I mean is that no Christians condem anyone who are attracted to the same sex. The problem is acting on it. It is sin to practice homosexuality."

To which I replied with: "As I previously stated, many Christians do condemn homosexuals. Would you agree that one can be a homosexual and a Christian?"

And you then responded with: "Christians should repent when they are in sin. There are homosexual agendists who are promoting lies by saying homosexuality sex is not sin and they should be able to marry same sex. It is just outrageous the way they are promoting sin."

I pointed out that you have just condemned the homosexual, which is the very thing you first stated that Christians don't do. Hence why I said you are protesting more than just homosexuality.

Oh gee, you are nitpicker, free.
 
shad said:
Free said:
You first stated: "What I mean is that no Christians condem anyone who are attracted to the same sex. The problem is acting on it. It is sin to practice homosexuality."

To which I replied with: "As I previously stated, many Christians do condemn homosexuals. Would you agree that one can be a homosexual and a Christian?"

And you then responded with: "Christians should repent when they are in sin. There are homosexual agendists who are promoting lies by saying homosexuality sex is not sin and they should be able to marry same sex. It is just outrageous the way they are promoting sin."

I pointed out that you have just condemned the homosexual, which is the very thing you first stated that Christians don't do. Hence why I said you are protesting more than just homosexuality.
Oh gee, you are nitpicker, free.
This isn't nitpicking shad. :gah You have made contradictory statements regarding a very important issue.
 
You know MM, Your seeming to want to make this an argument about homosexuality being a sin... I'm not arguing that it's a sin.... I will argue that a passing desire is not sin but rather a temptation though.

A homosexual goes about without any law. As I reminded you of Romans 2:12 first half of the verse.
I disagree. They are a law unto themselves. They can do what is in the law or violate the law of moses just as easily as a Jew and without ever seeing "The Law"...

Anyway, I think we're getting away from the jist of what Paul is trying to convey in Romans 2. He's not trying to prove how "wrong" those without the law are (as it appears your using his passages for), he's trying to show that those who "have" the "Law" are still "in Adam" so before we get to thinking we're any better than anyone else, we'd better re-evaluate where it is we've came from as we're reminded of the responsibility that we've been given because there's a new Adam in town, and his name is Jesus and it marks a new beginning with the new covenant.

It is not a matter of condeming sin. It is a matter of looking for an opportunity to help someone out of sin.

I agree with this, and this is where my emphasis has been. You see, we don't need to condemn sin, because sin is already condemned...

The huge problem is, that homosexuals are void in their minds of any righteous judgement.

Here is where we disagree. Homosexuals can hold righteous judgments, but just like "christians', they can err. You seem to think that all homosexuals are void in their minds of any righteous judgment. That my brother is a blanket statement and honestly, it isn't a true statement. Now then, while it's true that some homosexuals are void, the same can be said of liars and thieves. But some does not mean all and I am not talking about all. If however, you want to talk about "those", your not going to get an argument out of me other than to say what a tragedy, we need to pray for them.

One who will humble themselves, is someone you can work with and pray for.
I agree, but by who's standard and to whom must they humble themselves? Lets say for instance that one person has been called to be a light for the homosexual, while another has been called to be a light for the brotherhood. Don't you think that the one that's called to the brotherhood wouldn't do as well with homosexuals? Now then, both agree that this sin is serious, but both of them may take very different approaches when preaching to the homosexual.

It's fine to say that homosexuality is a sin, but if preaching to the homosexual's isn't your calling, then it's not your calling and you should be careful of what you say when talking to a homosexual, lest they misunderstand you and their hearts become hard.
 
Quote Stovebolts: "It's fine to say that homosexuality is a sin, but if preaching to the homosexual's isn't your calling, then it's not your calling and you should be careful of what you say when talking to a homosexual, lest they misunderstand you and their hearts become hard."


Hi J.

No I am not arguing with you whatsoever. I am merely pointing out a few misunderstandings.

One is , that being a homosexual is a sin <singular> It is not singular , it is plural. Romans 1:29 - 31 makes this clear, that it is a multitude of sins. And verse 31 states clearly that they are without understanding.

And as far as my calling is conerned, I believe we have different callings that make up the whole body of Christ. And as far as a homosexual's heart is concerned, it is already hardened. Does not the scripture tell us in Romans 1:25 & 26 that God gave them up to vile affections ? And it is because of what they worship ?

Who do you think a murderer worships ?

Didn't Jesus say to those who wanted to kill him that they were of their father the devil ?

And did not Jesus say that the world will hate you for telling them the truth ? How could anyone believe that a homosexual and still being a homosexual , be a christian ? Or even follow christianity and still cling to homosexuality ? They will refuse to follow christianity ! They will attach themselves to your kindness, then prey upon your kindness and see if they can bring you down to some degree of the way in which they see things. If you lower your standard in any way or to any degree , you will be acknowledging unto them that their standards of living can be flexible in some way. But there is no flexibility, and you should not allow them any flexibiliy one way or another.

Bless
 
stovebolts, from my expercience, though not all of the lbgt, is that i was heading to the complete reprobrate state if I didnt repent quickly. as I backslid into that sin.

Yes that nature was always there, but i was caught off guard, and never dealt with that. But when i repented the Lord took it, and i was healed.
 
question for free?

the struggle for the lust of the opposite sex is merely a control issue of the natural desires that the lord put in us. Unless you think that God indeed for the creation of a gay men and condemn to hell for acting on that lust. It's not natural for men to look at men, its a lie out of hell.

Why do men look at men? sin nature and disposition. Some men are rather effimate by nature and have a lower testerone level production. In western society we have also blurred the lines of what a men and women are to be. Dont you think that has an effect on young people of today. Is what i believe applicable to all male homosexuals, no.

while it may be possible for a man to be"born gay" it wasnt in the plan from god. Its part of that curse. some people are said to be born alcoholics, yet if they dont repent and accept jesus where will there home be, hell! sadly.

everytime i think about how and why i was bi, its hard to describe and understand why i was. only that i do want a love like the one i have for my wife and her alone, not with a man.
 
ronniechoate34 said:
Homosexuals should be left to their own devices provided they do not repent. And let me tell you that these people need to be weeded out and separated from the normal children in the schools for a start. They need to go simmer down all by themselves. I saw a guy who built his own island out of recyclable plastic bottles. Homosexuals should be given a sovereign nation with tight restrictions to keep them isolated. This way they are free to practice as they please and marry or whatever. It should please them very well. And then when the hand of God falls on them they'll be far away from me.
glad i wasnt subjected to that, i may have never repented and still on my way to hell.
 
Sorry Jason, I'm a little unclear as to what you're getting at with your post to me.
 
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