jasoncran
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i want to know how you justify that one can be a christian and at the same a celibate homosexual.Free said:Sorry Jason, I'm a little unclear as to what you're getting at with your post to me.
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i want to know how you justify that one can be a christian and at the same a celibate homosexual.Free said:Sorry Jason, I'm a little unclear as to what you're getting at with your post to me.
jasoncran said:packrat, i know that, i was bi. i was addressing free's comment.
if the bible condemns an act then the thought of it, when not immedialtely squashed(temptation) is sin.
the only act that isnt is the act of sex within the marriage bed, outside its wrong.
Physicist said:I find it somewhat disingenuous that fundamentalist Christians use the Bible to justify their prejudice against gay people. It seems to me that they behave as 'salad bar' Christians, accepting the often extreme Biblical commandments against homosexuality but ignoring the same extreme rules against others. Yes, Leviticus directs believers to kill Gays. It also directs the stoning of disobedient children. Yes, Paul condemns homosexual behavior, but he (if you accept the Pastorals as legitimate) also treats women as second class citizens
2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
Do the women posting in this forum think that all women teachers should be fired?
There are a lot of obsolete directives in the Bible that no longer apply to modern society. Bigotry against those with same-sex leanings is one.
Let me answer this question a little differently through my perspective. I am an alcoholic who has not had a drink in 17 years. Sometimes there is no problem controlling my addiction, and sometimes the struggle is intense, even after all these years. On the tough days the prayers just have to go up a little harder and a little louder, but our Lord always listens. Scripture says ALL have sinned and I believe the sin is in the action and thought BUT NOT IN THE STRUGGLE. You were fortunate and the Lord helped you defeat some of your sins and desires easily. For some of us the old man fights a little harder I guess. I believe that everyone on this forum sins daily, and we each look to our Lord to help us not to sin again and to forgive us again, and again, and again when we do.jasoncran said:i want to know how you justify that one can be a christian and at the same a celibate homosexual.
MM said:And as far as a homosexual's heart is concerned, it is already hardened. Does not the scripture tell us in Romans 1:25 & 26 that God gave them up to vile affections ? And it is because of what they worship ?
First, you are presuming that having an attraction to the same sex is a sin. Second, on what basis can you say that no one is born homosexual? Third, you go from speaking of being homosexual to homosexuality, which, as I made the correction earlier, are not one and the same and confuses the issue.Mysteryman said:No one is born an alcoholic nor is anyone born a homosexual. However, they can be born evil from their mothers womb. We can find this within scripture. But the bottom line is that it is a choice. To sin is always a choice. There is no one born in such a way, that they turn out this way because they were born with a default. This is just not true !
All sin and sinning is a choice ! All choices can change. Unless you have committed an unforgivable sin. Thank God that homosexuality is not an unforgiveable sin, unless one is fully committed to this sin. God is the final judge was to whom was fully committed to homosexuality. But one thing is true, they can change, it is not too late. Salvation is available. Remember, a homosexuality is not just "a" sin, it is a multitude of sins. Full repentance is needed, not partial repentance.
Concerning 1 Timothy 2:12, the woman was not to be the head of the household due to the husband's position of authority over his wife typifying that of Christ's position of authority over man. This is not treating women as second class. This is simply acknowledging a proper order to all things, including God's position over Man. In the culture of the time the husband was to lovingly serve the wife, the wife was supposed to be submissive to the husband's wishes and the husband was to defend her even with his life. In 1 Timothy 3:5 Paul raises a very good concern. If a man cannot manage his own house then he cannot manage a congregation. This puts them into the same category of women for our purposes here. If women are not even supposed to manage their husbands should they then be trying to manage a congregation? You might say this would be unfair. And it might be to an authoritarian feminist. I don't know about you, but I generally would not like my wife to hold a position of authority over me.
I can't tell you exactly why women were not to teach in this passage, but I can offer you five apparent truths: 1.) Paul says, "I do not permit [...]" and not "God declares it wrong for [...]" 2.) Paul draws close ties between teaching and exercising authority in the same verse. 3.) 1 Timothy 2:13-14 not only implies our shared concern that women should not rule over men but also goes further in its concerns, hinting at some meaning we have yet to disclose from the context of the situation. The same goes for verse 15. 4.)God raised up female prophets in the past and men consulted them (2 Kings 22:14). Also remember Deborah who both lead and delivered Israel (Judges 4:4-5)? 5.) Acts 18:26 and Romans 16:3 show that both Aquila and Priscilla taught Apollos.
There is a time for all things, but women are generally to be peacefully submissive to their husbands and husbands are to treat their wives with a gentle love. This is the Christian way. Women are not second class citizens or down-trodden by God. Quite the contrary, they are the bride of Christ and children of God. That seems like a rather high and respectable calling to me. Consider Galatians 3:28.
So, what do you call someone who is attracted only to the same sex? What if they don't engage in homosexual activities for a period of time for some reason, are they homosexual then not homosexual then homosexual again when they next become active?physicist said:It seems to me that, if you never engage in homosexual activities, you are not a homosexual.
StoveBolts said:Hi MM and sorry for the delay in my response. My schedule fluxuates so sometimes, it takes me a bit longer to reply.
That being said, it seems to me that your tagging all homosexuals as those with hardened hearts per Romans 1.
MM said:And as far as a homosexual's heart is concerned, it is already hardened. Does not the scripture tell us in Romans 1:25 & 26 that God gave them up to vile affections ? And it is because of what they worship ?
When we look at Romans 1, we have to know that Paul is, as I would say, “Retelling the storyâ€. What story? Well, the story that’s told from the Torah and it starts with creation. (verse 20). What Paul is describing are empires that have been infected by systemic sin (To which the Roman empire belonged). Several of these societies are mentioned in Torah, such as the people of the earth pre-flood, then there is Sodom, Egypt etc. You see, Paul isn’t narrowing his comment to a single person, he’s talking about Empires and how society as a whole can become infected from the top down.
Think for a moment on Roman culture and the ideologies they held in regard to same sex relations. History shows, at least from a biblical perspective, that when a society degragates via systemic sin, the whole system eventually collapses.
While I appreciate all that you have written, I think you missed my point as I’m still in disagrement with what you posted several pageas back and I think using Romans 1 is pushing the texts beyond it’s context to make such a blanket statement.MM said:The huge problem is, that homosexuals are void in their minds of any righteous judgement..
StoveBolts said:Hey MM,
While I appreciate all that you have written, I think you missed my point as I’m still in disagrement with what you posted several pageas back and I think using Romans 1 is pushing the texts beyond it’s context to make such a blanket statement.MM said:The huge problem is, that homosexuals are void in their minds of any righteous judgement..
I have personally known a handful of “homosexuals†in my life and can attest that several of them were not, as Romans 1:30 states in that they were “ slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, contrivers of all sorts of evil, disobedient to parents, 1:31 senseless, covenant-breakers, heartless, ruthless.â€
While I have know homosexuals with these traits, I have also known hetrosexuals that despised homosexuals that carried the same traits.
stebbinsd said:The Bible says that homosexuality is a sin.
Or does it?
I know it certainly seems that way at first glance, but look closer.
As I read about the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah, I read that Lot found brought to angels into his home, and the citizens of Sodom demanded that Lot release the angels so that they could rape them. Lot begged them to take his daughters instead, but the citizens would have none of it, and started breaking into his house. It was at that point, and only at that point, that Lot and his family fled the city while it was destroyed with fire and brimstone, and his wife became a pillar of salt.
So, I ask you two things:
1. Did Lot offer his daughters because they were women, or did he offer them to protect the angels, and he didn't have any sons to offer?
2. Was the city of Sodom destroyed because it was full of gay people, or was it destroyed because it was full of rapists?
Also, while the book of Leviticus does say that homosexuality is an abomination, doesn't that exact same book say that eating pork is an abomination? Yeah, Leviticus 11:7-8, go and read it yourself. So, do you like eating ham 'n' cheese sandwiches? What about hot dogs? Don't you know they're made of bologna, which is made of the meat of a pig?
Pork is not the only portion of Leviticus that most Christians disregard; in fact, it's the other way around: Homosexuality seems to be the only portion of Leviticus that Christians still uphold. Why? Why does that double standard exist?
So, conclusively, what real biblical reference can you chalk up, that cannot be disputed or undermined in any way, shape, or form, that homosexuality is, indeed, a sin?
This is a statement that needs tons of qualifications to reflect what "the Bible says" on this matter.Physicist said:Therefore, the Bible does say to kill homosexuals,.....