Haha. I've asked many times why an atheist would spend so much time and energy refuting that which they claim doesn't exist anyway. Seems very illogical for those who claim to rely so much on logic and reason.
Well in fairness he asked us the question here!
And I'm really interested in religion because it has such a large impact on the culture that surrounds me. I'm hoping to get better aquainted with scripture next semester as I'm taking some theology courses in University. I believe in a well rounded education, and new ideas rarely come from talking with people of like mind.
All in all, having your beliefs challenged allows you to refine them and understand if they are really your beliefs.
@ Oats
In terms of randomness, I assume you are in part referring to the inherent perfection on earth, and how it couldn't possibly be anything but a result of design.
To me, it is any argument on how improbable the perfection that exists in the natural world cannot be random is moot. It is here and if it wasn't, we wouldn't be around to have this conversation.
Furthermore, I would say everything is far from "perfect" or "balanced". In fact, life as we know it is constantly on the edge of chaos, teetering back and forth towards total implosion or explosion. There is no status quo that nature is constantly at. This is why conservation is so hard.
Finally, I would be ignorant to think that we have all the answers at our fingertips now. Clearly there is a self-organizing behaviour evident in all systems that we do not understand fully. To me, that does not imply a creator, it implies more knowledge that will eventually unravel, leading to even more mysteries. To me, furthering the borders of humanity involves unravelling these mysteries.
@ Jason
I have very little formal education in psychology. Basically, as Pebbles said, reality is what it is. There is no "meaning" or "purpose" to it. Some people are unlucky and others are lucky. My advice would be to seek professional help and to try to find happiness and love (not necessarily romantic) again in your life.